What's your favorite thing about being caged?

[Midmobear]

I want to hear a range of reasons for everyone's lockup. What do you love about having your cock locked away?

[sherulestherooster]

When I had a consistent key holder, short answer is the control and the asymmetric nature of the situation.

We had a “ritual” that During a lockdown, I’d affix the cage but leave it to her to click the lock (she’d normally look up in my eyes while she clicked it in a teasing “be careful what you wish for” look on her face) then we’d proceed to the bed and she’d have a volcanic orgasm with the Hitachi and me fingering her whilst she teased me through the cage. That was my favorite thing about being caged. So hot, fun memories!!

[Midmobear]

When I had a consistent key holder, short answer is the control and the asymmetric nature of the situation.

We had a “ritual” that During a lockdown, I’d affix the cage but leave it to her to click the lock (she’d normally look up in my eyes while she clicked it in a teasing “be careful what you wish for” look on her face) then we’d proceed to the bed and she’d have a volcanic orgasm with the Hitachi and me fingering her whilst she teased me through the cage. That was my favorite thing about being caged. So hot, fun memories!!

Love it! Planning on having many memories like this if my own!

[KittensBoyToy]

Simply put it is the act of total intimate submission to M'Lady and the knowledge that she loves me enough to take control.

[cuyahoga]

The cage (and orgasm denial) hits on multiple things that I love about sex. First, the journey over the destination. The orgasm seems to end the sexual pleasure, so dragging that out extends the enjoyment, and dragging it out for months is amazing. Second, I’ve always gotten off on hearing my wife get off. The sounds of her pleasure really, really push my buttons, so focusing on her pleasure is very natural for me. After some time denied and caged, I really start to share her orgasms, and seem to derive as much pleasure from them as my own. And the cage really intensifies those feelings.

Third, and not the least bit less important, I really like being controlled. The cage really pushes that button, especially if I can ask to be let out, and hear her say ‘no.’

[sherulestherooster]

Love it! Planning on having many memories like this if my own!

A big turn on for me in male orgasm is “the ratio”, or how may times my partner comes compared to me. Long term average was 3.5. Became a big part of the tease between us and I especially got turned on when an orgasm was “promised” but she “changed her mind”… very hot stuff!

[Laceyfemme]

I am an older self locker, so orgasm control and denial are not nearly as big a deal as they might be if I was younger and had an active keyholder. I honestly just like the near total absence of minor penis stimulation during the day--no rubbing against my leg or underwear. The inside of the small tube is very smooth, and there is hardly any relative motion with my penis. When I'm out walking it's almost like there is just a space between my legs where my penis used to be.

My second favorite thing is having to sit down to pee. Very humiliating. My third favorite thing is the small amount of dripping that I still get just occasionally after looking at porn, even if I can't get hard or masturbate.

[LuckyEddie]

My reasons are going to be WAY different from the run-of-the-mill user here.

For me, its about providing a safe environment for my wife. Given her history with an abusive first husband, for her to actually engage in any kind of sex is difficult (something we continue to work on with a therapist), and in general she does so as a sort of "Go along to Get along" kind of thing. My main goal, for her, with chastity is to make her feel as safe as possible, until she no longer needs a "safety net" to enjoy her sexual inheritance as a female. So as far as "favorite" goes, watching her progress through all of the barriers she has had to erect for her sanity, watching them come down (eventually), and watch her blossom and enjoy her womanhood.

Eddie

[Midmobear]

I am an older self locker, so orgasm control and denial are not nearly as big a deal as they might be if I was younger and had an active keyholder. I honestly just like the near total absence of minor penis stimulation during the day--no rubbing against my leg or underwear. The inside of the small tube is very smooth, and there is hardly any relative motion with my penis. When I'm out walking it's almost like there is just a space between my legs where my penis used to be.

My second favorite thing is having to sit down to pee. Very humiliating. My third favorite thing is the small amount of dripping that I still get just occasionally after looking at porn, even if I can't get hard or masturbate.

Definitely understand all of that! The precum drip throughout the day is my favorite too.

[Aredlight]

For me, the whole experience puts my sex drive through the roof. We've been able to find a couple of cages that are suitable for long term wear, the current one being rather heavy and large. Not big enough for anyone else to notice, but big and weighty enough that i cannot ignore the fact that my keyholder is in charge at all times. She knows exactly how to trigger me with a simple phrase or look, and sometimes has be begging for an orgasm. The whole experience is truly wonderful...and I should add that the right keyholder really adds another dimension to the teasing and denial!