Question on approaching wife

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DrPinotNoir
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Re: Question on approaching wife

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So last night my wife left me in my chastity cage after going to a birthday party at her sisters. It is my old poorly fitting A271 device because my Mature Metal Jaibird arrived for modifications thursday. 2 modifications that I believe will make this cage permanently possible to wear. Anyhow we had a great time last night at the party. When we got home she was teasing me. Whispering in my ear and rattling off what she was going to do to me. (It was all just teasing by her account nothing was going to happen) It was a crazy amount of teasing based of her reading of "The Keyholders Handbook" (Do not hand a vanilla wife this book in the beginning. She wont want to read it and she will think "This is just another job" and "Oh god here comes his kinks again I cannot stand it" (That is what happened in 2019 but.. it WORKED a month ago to give her the book again -ill put this in the blog posts) Then. She said. I want you to eat my pussy and I am leaving the cage on. I was turned on. she is massaging my balls playing with my nipples on the couch. Im turned on but locked up. Then she said "Get up" "What?" I said "we are going downstairs in the TV room. You are eating my pussy"

I went downstairs. She followed after a minute or two. Im laying on the couch bewildered? "Do you want me to take my clothes off?" "No" she removed her pants panties and socks laid back as I got off the couch. Then she said "ok. lick me softly" I did.. instant response. it was getting harder.. she was breathing heavy. felt like 30 seconds she said "Im cumming" the shaking the everything. I sat there after a while I said "do you want more?" "I dont know it never has worked twice. why not get to work" that one took about 3x longer but.. she came quite a bit harder. then said "That was awesome" I asked her "Was that real" "Yes" she said. then she added. "I wasnt going to do anything to you just tease you and send you to bed. I actually got horny talking dirty to you. " "wow.. when is the last time that happened? I said "About 15 years ago. Well I love being in control. We are going to be doing that a lot" Then I asked because I really didnt know and wanted to be really sure "What do you mean me eating your pussy but locked up?" "YES, that book is right. I love it"

so yeah.. I think I am going to start a blog I have the information when this started for us back in 2019. Things are great and I can see them only getting better from here on out.

What I started off with was a 30 year relationship where we love each other. My wife thought she was asexual (She clearly wasnt) I was masturbating like crazy. (For us this was bad. It was killing any kind of sex we were going to have and things were getting worse) we had vaginal sex like 5 times in the past 3 years. Initmacy wasnt there. yeah.. then back in 2019 I bought my first chastity cage and played with it secretly. She had zero interest in chastity. perhaps you can follow my story with adjustments for yourself. It wasnt a easy process but it definitely progressed in the right direction.

anyhow I think I am going to chronicle the voyage to what happened last night. Our dreams are coming true. We are connecting on a relationship leve and the sex is coming back in a big way. Im not really doing anything actively. She is and it seems to be getting exponential a bit like the Chernobyl incident but the results are kind of amazing.
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Te0991
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Re: Question on approaching wife

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So I'd say my wife and I have a pretty vanilla sex life. With two young kids we usually do the deed once a week and it's usually short and to the point. At the beginning of our relationship we would try new things like anal (which she disliked) and some super light bondage like mild restraints, blindfolds and edging eachother. As time went on most of that faded out and our busy lifestyles took over. I've always had a much higher libido than her which ends up with me playing grabass throughout the week hoping for a quickie while the kids nap or something but that rarely happens and that's ok.

I've always been into a lot of different things and fantasies and thought about chastity before. On an impulse the other day while doing the deed at my computer I just up and bought a device with the intention of just trying out some self denial and possibly wearing it out in public for the risque factor. I honestly had no intention of mentioning it to the wife since I generally assumed a don't ask don't tell approach with all the other stuff I'm into with porn and etc on my own that she is not into. I thought this would be the same. Well the package came and I was able to put it away but when I went to work she had to use the computer for something and saw a delivery notification for a site we've used before that she knows the name of. She opened it thinking I had ordered something new to try with her as I've done before and she saw my "secret".

She sent me a screenshot of it and just asked what this was. I was embarrassed to all hell for being found out but I told her we'd talk after I got home. So we had a chat that night and to my surprise she seemed curious and we agreed to explore this together!

So I guess tl:dr
Moral of the story is just talk to your partner!

If you are safe and secure in your relationship you shouldn't feel embarrassed like I was to talk to her. I apologized to her for not trusting her with this in the first place and I feel like being "found out" in this way may have done some good for our relationship and I'm excited to see where this all goes in the future.
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