For those who journal here, does she know?

[midlifelovelife]

I have been keeping a journal on this site for about a year and a half. It’s just a private place for me to collect my thoughts. Often, the process of journaling helps me figure out the words to express my feelings to my wife when it comes to chastity and orgasm control.

However, I was recently thinking that she might like to read the journal. For others out there keeping a journal, does your partner know? Does she read it? If so, what effect has this had on your relationship?

[KittensBoyToy]

M'Lady is a member so she reads my journal. There is nothing she could read here that she didn't already know even if she didn't.

[inchastityat127]

My keyholding wife does not know. I think she would be terrified that our intimate life is on the Internet for all to see - like you would actually know who we are. That’s just the way she thinks. She comes from a pretty conservative background, so maybe that’s why.

I have started to keep a Journal here to document our journey with this that appreciate it. And sometimes ask for opinions and feedback. Maybe one day I’ll share it with her.

[LockedByBD]

My keyholding wife does not know. I think she would be terrified that our intimate life is on the Internet for all to see - like you would actually know who we are. That’s just the way she thinks. She comes from a pretty conservative background, so maybe that’s why.

I have started to keep a Journal here to document our journey with this that appreciate it. And sometimes ask for opinions and feedback. Maybe one day I’ll share it with her.

My wife is similarly conservative. It took a while for her to get into my chastity fantasy. Now she likes the benefit of having me locked and several times has kept me that way for up to three months at a time. But she doesn't want others to know. I haven't kept a journal for a while, but I find reading what others have posted has helped me explain to my wife why I like chastity.

Will I tell her about this forum some day? Only if she gets more assertive in her control. Then I'll have to consider carefully... she might get way too many ideas!

[Luv2belocked]

My BBW doesn’t know I journal here, I think if she knew she’d be upset and lock me 24/7 365. She’s of the mindset of be careful what you wish for. I’m not sure if I’m quite ready to give up ALL my orgasms. Right now she has me on pace for maybe 8-10 a year. That’s a massive drop from having almost daily orgasms like it used to be. Since chastity has become a much larger part of our everyday lives she has reduced my orgasms steadily to where we are now.

[nosaint]

She is/was aware of it, probably has forgotten about it. I talked her into joining this forum. She signed in 3 or 4 times, the last time in January of 2021. I doubt she'll check in again. Women in general don't seem to get much out of boards dedicated to sexual topics.

[Steve2059]

I have mentioned that I post here and there, so She knows generally. Doesn't know the actual sites, and so long as I don't post our names and addresses She's not bothered.

[sirmebane]

No. She doesn't know and would likely have a poor reaction if she became aware. I struggle between the need for "community support" and her unwillingness to explore human sexuality beyond what I think up in a given moment.

"Pssst. I'm reading to learn."

[TwistedMister]

Mrs. Twisted is vaguely aware of my participation here. I doubt she even knows the name of the site, and isn't really interested in knowing. She has never participated in any sort of web forum, just not her 'thing'. She spends the bulk of her working day with computers, as a software support specialist for government accounting software. They have their own internal message board and IM, so between those and helping the customers figure out where they fucked up, once she is done for the day, she's done and she is not inclined to get involved with message boards for 'fun'.

[Homebody]

I have fallen out of practice of posting this summer. But I share very personal details on my journal and I consider it a violation of my wife's privacy to post anything without her approval. So I write up a post and ask her to read it before posting. It also gives us a chance to discuss the post which can be a lot of fun, and sometimes can clear up some misunderstandings that we might not even be aware of.

Maybe I should startup again.