The smallest cage on AliExpress (29 mm ring) is too large for me (my 6th)? I'm in despair

[Ianuda]

To knock it right out, yes, I'm buying them on AliExpress. I'm mentioning this because I'm scared you're going to humiliate me. Although I'm quite sure, my issue is unrelated to their quality. Now I'm going to give you a quick run down of my experience with chastity (skip to cage #6 for the main tragedy).

I got into orgasm denial / NoFap thanks to a game Virtual Succubus, but it was the Sissy University website that literally shoved my nose into an AliExpress link to buy a cage IRL (ironically, a Holy Trainer, which I would go on never to purchase). And so I did. I checked a review of various devices by Sissy Joyce on PornHub, and then actually saw a dolphin cage on AE. (I'm not a sissy btw, merely tolerant/open-minded.)

Cages #1 (dolphin; plastic) and #2 (fish head; plastic) I bought on the same day. They proved out to be too long (65 mm tubes), although I consider it money well spent as I could achieve a caged orgasm by simple friction with great effort.

Cage #3 (perforated design; plastic) is a cause of burning shame to me, as it's utterly useless, the rings are simply too large.

Cage #4 (openable ring; plastic) was effectively a real attempt on my part. A 38 mm long tube, a plastic device with a bar design for washing, AND with an openable/riveted ring - what could go wrong? First, I finally realised that cages #1 and #2 are not unique in that the smallest ring is unusable because the gap between the ring and the tube disappears. Whatever, the 43 mm ring will fit anyway, I thought. Inb4 the cage slid down. And here I encountered but didn't exactly realise a second point - cages #1 and #2 kept themselves up with the 48 mm ring because the tube continues backwards behind the ring (just like Holy Trainer). A part that this cage and all the metal devices are missing. (Even with this problem I managed to wear it it for 2 days and 1 night, and it felt like a decent chastity experience, absolutely zero stimulation.)

Cage #5 was my first metal cage, never intended to buy one but there was a huge summer sale (3 USD for a 20 USD metal cage, lol; although I actually bought this one for 7 USD). It slides down. The original 45 mm curved ring - slides. The other 40 mm circular ring I ordered doesn't fit the cage, but it slides anyway, so money double wasted.

And finally, I'm coming to the current issue - cage #6. I decided that the issue was the ring size. So I went out to search for the smallest ring physically possible. And I found it. The riveted/openable metal cages with rings down to 29 mm in height! Bar design, sold for 13 USD. It can't go wrong, right? Unless the ring is too small making my balls fall off, correct?

It's too large!? Or I don't get my anatomy. As some say, maybe the balls are too saggy with my being a grower? Either way, even this smallest of all cage rings I have seen in that store makes the cage slide down! How is it possible? And the joke is, the ring is so small, it takes me 30 freaking minutes to put it on. I kid you not. My will is like iron, and I repeated this ordeal 3 times, the cage slides less than the previous one, but it's still just not worth the torture.

What am I doing wrong? And is there any hope for me? I saw people mention holding strings, underpants, full-metal chastity belts. I understand that "ball-trap" devices are a meme for some people. But I was quite sure the 29 mm ring will hold onto my scrotum! With this in mind, how can even a 300 USD custom-made cock cage fit me?

And as I said previously, what makes the fish head cage hold its position much more reliably is the tube that continues behind the ring. It effectively covers more of the base of my penis. But such a design choice literally doesn't seem to exist among the metal cages? Aside from the weird full-metal Holy Trainer-esque knockoffs. Any idea why that is so?

Overall, it's quite disheartening. I'm not superstitious, but I feel doomed in the final calculation. There are things I can still potentially try out.

1) Holy Trainer V4 Nub/Mini - probably will be wearable, but it is a completely closed design, and I'm weary of the pliability of the bioresin material;
2) Vice - it is hugely advertised everywhere, costs a lot of rupees, has anti-pullout parts, but I don't get how it might not be useless for me after all of the above;
3) Mamba 3D printed cages - the tube design is the same, the smallest ring is 38 mm - these don't give me substantial hope.

Piercing is completely out of the question for me, but I honestly believe even that wouldn't amount to much, the cage would still slide down.

That said, I wouldn't want any folks reading this to be discouraged themselves, I actually got quite a few things out of the journey so far - 1) caged orgasms that come at great effort after at least 5 min of an immense leap of faith in my ability to cum (and that is an incredible contrast to trying not to cum too soon); 2) I even experienced my first ever milking while wearing cage #6, with the gentle backwards motions of a buttplug (it was microscopic, but still counts as a proof of concept). But I'd like to know there is a solution.

[slave d]

The one i’m in is pretty darn tiny and has to be hinged or you can’t get it on. Like you it takes ages to fit on so i’m not allowed to take it off … at all. You can follow the link in my signature through to see it but i don’t think it’s any smaller than you’re talking about. So not sure that’s any help …. sorry. All i can say is that hinged is the only possible solution below about 36mm for me as i can’t get my stuff through a fixed ring any smaller.

Oh one other thing, you can effectively make it smaller by fitting plastic or silicone tubing over the ring !!

MsM’s ld

[TwistedMister]

29mm is just a hair over 1.1 inch. I'm having a hard time imagining how this could be a correct size.

[slave d]

29mm is just a hair over 1.1 inch. I'm having a hard time imagining how this could be a correct size.

Agreed, hope it’s actually being fitted correctly and not just around part of his junk. That said mine's only a few mm bigger plus i have a plastic sleeve fitted and it fits really well (hard to get on but once in place it’s very comfortable)

MsM’s ld

[Ianuda]

29mm is just a hair over 1.1 inch. I'm having a hard time imagining how this could be a correct size.

Yes, the ring is ca. 30 mm in height, slightly larger in width, I measured it. It is quite a feat to put the cage on without pinching the skin in multiple places, but it doesn't feel too small when worn. Unfortunately, it doesn't hold securely either.

Agreed, hope it’s actually being fitted correctly and not just around part of his junk. That said mine's only a few mm bigger plus i have a plastic sleeve fitted and it fits really well (hard to get on but once in place it’s very comfortable)

What do you mean about being fitted correctly? I did specifically try to close the cage as high as possible, and yet it still slides anyway. And could you expand more upon on the plastic sleeve in question?

[TwistedMister]

What do you mean about being fitted correctly? I did specifically try to close the cage as high as possible, and yet it still slides anyway. And could you expand more upon on the plastic sleeve in question?

1.1" would just about fit on my dick, it wouldn't fit with the ballsack in too.

[slave d]

OK had a look at your links and you’re wearing the same as me but with a different cage design, so hinged A-ring is the same as mine. Did you check my link and are you on the smallest A-ring shown there ? i started on the smallest and wore it for about 3 weeks but it caused a sore to develop and i had to go to the second size. The second size was a bit big so i put some 8mm inside diameter clear plastic hose (from a handyman store) over the metal. The result was perfect. You get the tubing hot by dipping in boiling water and that softens it, then slide it on (use some dishwash liquid for lube) to the A-ring from one end. i suspect you have quite a loose scrotum and that’s the main problem but if you eventually get the size right it should work out. So, i suspect i’m a very similar size to you, i have the same issue putting it on with pinching etc (MsM basically doesn’t let me take it off any more, even lock checks are done without removing it) but hopefully you will find that easier in time. Hopefully you get what i mean regarding the tubing because that will make quite a difference overall and might just be the answer. If you’re like me you love being tiny, i love MsM teasing me about it, but getting the right fit can be tricky. Just think carefully, there will be a solution that will be perfect for you. If you pm me an email address i’ll send you some pics of mine (in place as i’m not allowed to remove it).

MsM’s ld