Wife is shy/needs guidance
Posted: Mon Jun 28, 2021 9:14 pm
This is my 2nd post here and I'm pretty sure I'm in the right place, but I am looking to find if there would be any experienced kh out there that could reach out to my wife and kind of guide her along a bit because I suck at it...make no bones about it, she's into it, I've been locked over a month the majority of time time, she has implemented severe punishment, done some demanding kinky stuff, yet she's frustrated because she doesn't really know what she's supposed to do and I am terrible at communicating it to her and just "going with the flow" isn't working for her. Her confidence needs a serious boosting. Years ago, we got into a failed chastity experiment for numerous reasons, including the fact that I believe she went into "that other site" looking for guidance because she exhibited some truly bizarre rapid behavior changes. I am not looking for the sissification stuff at all with her and I've let her know it, not only do we have a teenager in the house, I'm just not looking to open any cans of worms like that.
Considering I have all of these bizarre expectations of chastity due to pornography and various other online content, this is not the case with her at all. At this time, after she looked over some options, she requested the book, Chastity: A Guide for Vanilla Wives, she doesn't seem to care for it, loses interest. She wants to ask questions with someone that knows what they are doing. I looked into joining the discord posted elsewhere here but it seems I'd have to jump through hoops just to get the message across of what we need. She wants to post and be contacted where she wouldn't have to worry about me reading it as well, so there's also that.
I considered paying for a dom session to have a virtual q and a but I just don't think that's needed. Could someone please point us in the right direction here?
Considering I have all of these bizarre expectations of chastity due to pornography and various other online content, this is not the case with her at all. At this time, after she looked over some options, she requested the book, Chastity: A Guide for Vanilla Wives, she doesn't seem to care for it, loses interest. She wants to ask questions with someone that knows what they are doing. I looked into joining the discord posted elsewhere here but it seems I'd have to jump through hoops just to get the message across of what we need. She wants to post and be contacted where she wouldn't have to worry about me reading it as well, so there's also that.
I considered paying for a dom session to have a virtual q and a but I just don't think that's needed. Could someone please point us in the right direction here?