The Big down after

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Locked_husband
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Re: The Big down after

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Wow 3 years. Do you have ruined ones to keep things going?

Do you have that wonderful high still?
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slave d
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Re: The Big down after

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The only “relief” i am allowed now is when i become so aroused i feel as if i’m peeing but what’s coming out is precum and cum. MsM has taught me to relax at those times so my system doesn’t realise it’s had an orgasm, no muscle spasms etc, and so i’m “empty” but still pretty much as aroused as before. No crash and burn and no waiting and wondering when next, it will happen again when it happens. Usually happens when MsM is riding Her strap-on that i wear (Vixskin) cowgirl and moaning Her way through Her 3rd or 4th or 5th orgasm in a row. After She will say “mmmm did we have an accident little dickie” ? “now suck my Buck’s cock clean then come and bathe me” !!

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Re: The Big down after

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I am lost and a big A hole for about 2 weeks after. She really does not like what I become. It’s a journey I am working on. Also when the cage is off me. I am literally lost and empty. I’ve told Her it’s like I’ve lost a connection with her and a bit of a demon comes out. We have bought a few dildos with a harness which we have been using and She loves. And as She says they don’t give her attitude 😂. We have discussed no more orgasm and she is on board but she has admitted she still really enjoys me in her and the feeling of me releasing in her. Just doesn’t like who I become afterwards.
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Re: The Big down after

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Ahhh just because She “uses you” doesn’t mean you have to cum !! You could try the old numbing cream and condoms etc or set a punishment for cumming such as eating what you produce immediately plus other penalties that appeal to your keyholder. She just needs to be a bit more controlling !! You’ll like it in the end and as they say “be careful what you wish for” !!

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Re: The Big down after

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I have always preferred not to orgasm for the same reasons as you. Just not worth the 10 seconds of pleasure followed by boredom, low energy, irritable and generally wishing I did not cum. Funny that it was my wife who wanted me to cum because she felt is was an indication of how sexually desirable she is. However it was hand jobs only as she cut me off from intercourse and oral for several reasons and at her steady girlfriend's request because she was sexually dominating me for 30 years and viewed intercourse and blow jobs as non submissive acts. I have not had intercourse or performed or received oral in 20+ years so I really had nothing to lose.

My wife wanted to keep me orgasm free from the first day I put on a chastity cage 10 years ago. We moved away from her girlfriend and had no sexual attraction for me anymore but still loved me except for the sex part. I agreed to a gradual weaning off orgasms and this year I no longer get any. Really has not bothered me much because I did not get more then 2-3 for the last 5 years and those were quick hand jobs and just not worth giving up that sexual energy I had when denied. For our form of chastity, the goal has always been permanent orgasm denial. If we had sex once a month I do not have to be locked up for that since I could do that easily. I only start to get antsy after 3 months of orgasm denial. Just not worth losing that sexual energy coursing through my body for a few seconds of orgasmic pleasure.
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