The night you told her

Living the real life under lock and key
mikel2411
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It's may 28th, it's been 66 days since I turned over control and even though my KH has been enjoying my confinement I have been denied any satisfaction of my own. I have been led to believe July will be when it might be considered for some kind of relief but at this point I really have no reason to believe that.
It has been very interesting since my KH has used a few new toys on me surprising me greatly and giving me hope we have really turned a corner in our relationship. If things continue to escalate I might have committed to much more than I could have imagined, in a good way? :D
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Re: The night you told her

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My wife, then girlfriend when we first started to play with chastity, was chatting with one of her girlfriends about sex stuff. Her friend brought up that she keeps her man locked up, she went right home and researched the crap out of male chastity. My wife showed a lot of interest, so I ordered a cheap plastic and metal one to test the waters. I tested the metal one first, I drove over to her place and we got ready for sexy time, she felt it first, then inspected it up close. She asked for a key that day and proudly wore it on a bracelet.

She loved the control she had over my orgasms and my pro snuggling characteristics when chaste. So we got with a custom place and ordered a more fit cage.

I never thought I’d be into this sort of thing, but I enjoy the way it makes my wife feel and the constant hugging feeling I feel down below. It’s been an awesome journey with the love of my life!
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Dogtanian69
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I told Her in a long, rambling email. I had just gone through rotator cuff surgery and had already been spending too much time on Tumblr. Our sex had been not quite vanilla since day one, years ago.. I’d never hid the fact that behind closed doors I was submissive, but THIS was something new… I bought a, really bad silicon cage, and started writing, confessing that I masturbated most mornings and that was causing lackluster performances in bed. I apologized profusely and explained that I wanted to try chastity, sending some pdf books on chastity and flrs to her. After the longest two hours of my life she got back to me and said she was interested and we needed to talk.

When she got home, after dinner we put on the cage, then we took it off and I shaved and we put it back on. I made her orgasm manually and orally quite a few times, and the cage stayed on (though I could still get hard in that one). She said, we can do this, but you WILL absolutely only be unlocked when I want. And that’s how it’s been. We moved to a VICE, but it caused problems and then I got the BON4M, which I LOVE, and two years later, I’m still wearing it. In the beginning She let me out once a week, now it’s random and infrequent and I’m absolutely cool with that.
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Ianuda
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Dogtanian69 wrote: Tue Jun 08, 2021 11:30 am I told Her in a long, rambling email. I had just gone through rotator cuff surgery and had already been spending too much time on Tumblr.
Just to chip in - your name is legendary to me, Dogtanian. I've only been following Tumblr through tumbex for a month or so, but your content is impeccable.

As to the topic - my right hand was thankful and understanding. Although less jerking does not mean less CBT (poor wrists).
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Dogtanian69
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I’m glad you like my captions, though in case I get deleted on there, which is very possible. You may want to follow me on BDSMLR
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mikel2411
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Re: The night you told her

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Well its been 84 days, WOW!
On the 80th day I noticed a strange pinching sensation removed unit for inspection found some strange swelling. I spent the night free of the steel device under close supervision, I waited until the next evening to try and reinstall unit. Unfortunately I couldn't get everything through the smaller ring. I decided to try one of my larger units V2 with a 50mm ring and was just able to get everything through slipping the smallest tube I have into the ring. Felt strange to have the much lighter plastic device on even though it had been the first one I had worn for any length of time, much different than the steel unit that has a much smaller ring and half the length cage. WE checked today and were able to get the shorter steel unit on as normal with my KH adding a heavy steel cock ring behind the ring just to make up for the "lost time". During my brief free time I was not allowed to orgasm and I was almost constantly monitored and even in the V2 she checked me regularly. I didn't ask how long the extra ring is to stay on but it was an interesting addition surprising me she had come up with it, kind of figure it's on for at least two days. I had tried adding the ring before with the V2 and it didn't work out well but I can already tell with this ring on it feels much better than before. I am still under the impression that it will be July before I will be allowed any kind of release other than her teasing me and "LETTING" me bring her to an orgasm whenever she wants me too. Well I am the one who started this so I can't complain but I am getting kind of "frustrated" with being left unsatisfied for so long and having no idea when it might change and sort of hope it continues while I am starting to like the idea of being locked indefinitely. Guess we will see.
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