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Re: How to tell her not to stop the denial
Posted: Tue Jan 14, 2020 4:32 pm
by Chastityat61
There are several great members here.support is amazing..One post I read a while back had a statement that went something like.. " I must remember, I am the one in chastity, to her it's just another day. " I apply that idea to many of the thoughts I have towards chastity, in that I think about it a lot. I was self locking hoping she might come around to liking the idea. I went about introducing this in a way that caused wife to resist. She is very vanilla. Basically, I pushed to fast, did what I wanted, bought devices, gave her the keys (which she rejected) and offered for her to join me in my desire for chastity. In the end because of my selfish approach and expecting more of her than was reasonable, it failed again. I say that to say this...these guys have successfully introduced chastity into their life and with life partners. Listen to what they might have to offer. I wish I found this place years ago before I did the whole thing wrong the first time and 10 years later doing it wrong again.
Re: How to tell her not to stop the denial
Posted: Wed Jan 15, 2020 9:26 am
by Beard
Well, today's the day. Everyone wish me luck.
Re: How to tell her not to stop the denial
Posted: Wed Jan 15, 2020 11:37 am
by Chastityat61
You will do just fine. Deep breath and relax.
Re: How to tell her not to stop the denial
Posted: Wed Jan 15, 2020 1:53 pm
by sirmebane
Deep breath and relax... AND REPORT BACK!
You have us all on the hook rooting for you.
Re: How to tell her not to stop the denial
Posted: Thu Jan 16, 2020 10:44 am
by Beard
Well, I came home from work and she was sneezing and blowing her nose and obviously felt awful.
...so, still waiting. And worse yet, no teasing for me.
Gods, why do you torment me so!?!? LoL
Re: How to tell her not to stop the denial
Posted: Thu Jan 16, 2020 12:09 pm
by Tessasissy
Definatley wait until she is 100% and in a good place first!
Re: How to tell her not to stop the denial
Posted: Thu Jan 16, 2020 5:37 pm
by Beard
Agreed! Definitely wait until she's feeling better, in a good (no, great!) mood, and horney. It's just that, I've finally built up the nerve that I'm confident I can actually ask her and it's killing me to have to wait!
Must be patient.
The saga of Beard goes on.
Re: How to tell her not to stop the denial
Posted: Thu Jan 16, 2020 6:53 pm
by locked4her55
Beard wrote: ↑Thu Jan 16, 2020 5:37 pm
Agreed! Definitely wait until she's feeling better, in a good (no, great!) mood, and horney.
Maybe after dinner out with a nice bottle of wine too.
Re: How to tell her not to stop the denial
Posted: Fri Jan 17, 2020 4:16 am
by TwistedMister
Beard wrote: ↑Thu Jan 16, 2020 10:44 am
Well, I came home from work and she was sneezing and blowing her nose and obviously felt awful.
...so, still waiting. And worse yet, no teasing for me.
Gods, why do you torment me so!?!? LoL
Mrs. Twisted and I have been sick since a couple of days after Xmas, 2 different bugs, one on the heels of the other. We are just starting to feel better over the last day or so.
Re: How to tell her not to stop the denial
Posted: Fri Jan 17, 2020 2:36 pm
by Beard
She seems like she's feeling a lot beter today, but definitely not 100%. If she happens to initiate sex then I'll definitely tell her. Otherwise I'll wait.
Everybody pray that she gets horney, lol