I am a married male in my mid fifties. We used to have a very active sex life but due to medical reasons, my wife's libido has decreased during the last 2 years. We have sex a few times a month ... sometimes PIV, sometimes I give her oral.
So far she does not show any interest in chastity.
So I have been discovering it myself ...
What I actually do is to tease myself for days, even weeks without actually cumming. Whenever I have the feeling that it is too much already, I would milk myself to get some relief. But I try - by all means - to avoid any form of orgasm while playing with myself. When I have sex with her, I reach orgasm maybe once or twice a month.
So I do watch porn, I do stroke my cock and I don't use any chastity device.
Would you call this "chastity"?
Would you call it "chastity"?
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Re: Would you call it "chastity"?
I’d call that “tease and denial”, and, it can definitely be called chastity. To be “chaste” originally meant to be “sexually pure”, as if there was such a thing. Keeping your arousal high for when your spouse wants to have sex, and reserving orgasm for her, fits into that “chaste” mindset for me.
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Re: Would you call it "chastity"?
I have been edging far too much. I haven't masturbated to orgasm since I made a new year's resolution last year, but once or twice I've inadvertently reached a half-ruin.
We haven't made our 2020 resolutions yet, but I'm thinking of adding a ban on edging to see what happens to me.
Thing is, the edging does make me hornier, I think. I'm afraid that my libido might fall if I don't edge!
We haven't made our 2020 resolutions yet, but I'm thinking of adding a ban on edging to see what happens to me.
Thing is, the edging does make me hornier, I think. I'm afraid that my libido might fall if I don't edge!
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Re: Would you call it "chastity"?
I stopped edging myself in 2018, if memory serves. It led to orgasms - what you call “half-ruins” - sooner or later, and with no way to avoid that.
My libido has been fine. Bear edges me when we have sex, once or twice a week. He likes the noises I make, and I need touch and genital pleasure to feel loved and cared for.
My libido has been fine. Bear edges me when we have sex, once or twice a week. He likes the noises I make, and I need touch and genital pleasure to feel loved and cared for.
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