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Just for you, @Tom Allen : "After 9 days in permanent #chastity" https://twitter.com/thearti06095372/sta ... 0482634752

God-effing-dammit! Gaahhh!

I'd respond, but it's a 6 month old tweet ffs. Ugh.

Je tres envie de devenir , etre permanent chastity/denial matrix . Je suis entierement que avoir mon penis puisse devenire un moyen pour qui me faire une cage chastete avec permanence porte sur un . Si possible vraiment cbt serait nue avec possible etre filme et mettre dans un model nue devant public pour servire faire essai differant type de .

From Google Translate:

I really want to become, be permanent chastity / denial matrix. I fully believe that having my penis can become a way for me to make myself a chastity cage with permanent wear on one. If possible really cbt would be naked with possible to be filmed and put in a naked model in front of public to serve to test different type of.

Thank you Tom

Tom Allen wrote: ↑Wed Dec 11, 2019 1:23 pm

cshorts wrote: ↑Wed Dec 11, 2019 10:54 am Maybe we should define the axes on the imaginary numbers plane to accommodate those guys who are just fantasizing about their chastity.

Geez, you guys are weird.

Okay, here's a Z axis for you:

Z0: Wanker in a fantasy world. Probably no partner.
Z1: Wanker, has shopped for a device, but not ordered one.
Z3: Wanker, has device, hasn't told partner.
Z4: Has device, finally told horrified partner.
Z5: Has a device, partner not totally on board
Z6: Partner goes along, sometimes enjoys it.
Z7: Partner actively suggests using it.
Z8: Has several devices, partner enthusiastic about keyholding.
Z9: Partner even more enthusiastic than he is.
Z10: Partner has 100% control of keys, releases, etc.

I like this addition. For me, my wife’s involvement with chastity and denial made it all the more worthwhile.

In September of 2014 my wife first reached Z7. She actively suggested she liked my manners better in chastity. I found myself finally in piercing controlled Malechastitynow custom chastity starting my first seven 24-hour days’ stretch of wear on 1-Oct that year. I’m grateful for the timing of my healing and Mark’s return of the cage.

We’re at Z8-Z10 depending on her mood. I have access to an emergency key. Right now I’m locked as long as she wants and self locking / unlocking is not an option except for health reasons or me safewording.

She’s been 100% control of my orgasms since 2014, and my masturbation except for a 2 month “break” after my vasectomy this year. Strictly i was allowed to self lock last year as she was on travel a lot.

My enthusiasm for chastity and denial is probably less than hers right now. I’m breaking a little... or bending ... but she’s resolute. So I don’t know where we are between Z8 and Z10 long term.

You can try a simple:

U - unlocked at times
N- never unlocked except for medical and travel
O - get some orgasms
D - Denied orgasms

I would be ND. Simple without going into levels and degrees of locking or orgasms.

@Tom Allen thank you for the matrix, this was really helpful in defining goals with my wife and I. I had seen it first on your blog which is where I sent her.

I had told her:

I would say my ideal is probably 10,10 but realistically I think 8/9,8/9 is achievable I'm curious what your idea is on what you think is realistic, and what you want it to be.

She responded:

I think 7/8,7/8

So we've settled on 8,8 as our mutual goal/agreement/rule

Anyways, just wanted to drop a note of thanks to you and the other contributors for putting the brain power in to make this a simple and very approachable tool for defining chastity in a relationship.

ETA: Here's my completed matrix. Curious if anyone would be interested in a web-based tool that would output a similar chart based on user input.

It's interesting to see this scale keep coming around. I guess it's easy enough to understand, and that makes it easier to explain to others.