The Permanent Chastity/Denial Matrix
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Re: The Permanent Chastity/Denial Matrix
Just for you, @Tom Allen : "After 9 days in permanent #chastity" https://twitter.com/thearti06095372/sta ... 0482634752
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God-effing-dammit! Gaahhh!
I'd respond, but it's a 6 month old tweet ffs. Ugh.
I'd respond, but it's a 6 month old tweet ffs. Ugh.
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Je tres envie de devenir , etre permanent chastity/denial matrix . Je suis entierement que avoir mon penis puisse devenire un moyen pour qui me faire une cage chastete avec permanence porte sur un . Si possible vraiment cbt serait nue avec possible etre filme et mettre dans un model nue devant public pour servire faire essai differant type de .
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From Google Translate:
I really want to become, be permanent chastity / denial matrix. I fully believe that having my penis can become a way for me to make myself a chastity cage with permanent wear on one. If possible really cbt would be naked with possible to be filmed and put in a naked model in front of public to serve to test different type of.
I really want to become, be permanent chastity / denial matrix. I fully believe that having my penis can become a way for me to make myself a chastity cage with permanent wear on one. If possible really cbt would be naked with possible to be filmed and put in a naked model in front of public to serve to test different type of.
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I like this addition. For me, my wife’s involvement with chastity and denial made it all the more worthwhile.Tom Allen wrote: ↑Wed Dec 11, 2019 1:23 pmGeez, you guys are weird.
Okay, here's a Z axis for you:
Z0: Wanker in a fantasy world. Probably no partner.
Z1: Wanker, has shopped for a device, but not ordered one.
Z3: Wanker, has device, hasn't told partner.
Z4: Has device, finally told horrified partner.
Z5: Has a device, partner not totally on board
Z6: Partner goes along, sometimes enjoys it.
Z7: Partner actively suggests using it.
Z8: Has several devices, partner enthusiastic about keyholding.
Z9: Partner even more enthusiastic than he is.
Z10: Partner has 100% control of keys, releases, etc.
In September of 2014 my wife first reached Z7. She actively suggested she liked my manners better in chastity. I found myself finally in piercing controlled Malechastitynow custom chastity starting my first seven 24-hour days’ stretch of wear on 1-Oct that year. I’m grateful for the timing of my healing and Mark’s return of the cage.
We’re at Z8-Z10 depending on her mood. I have access to an emergency key. Right now I’m locked as long as she wants and self locking / unlocking is not an option except for health reasons or me safewording.
She’s been 100% control of my orgasms since 2014, and my masturbation except for a 2 month “break” after my vasectomy this year. Strictly i was allowed to self lock last year as she was on travel a lot.
My enthusiasm for chastity and denial is probably less than hers right now. I’m breaking a little... or bending ... but she’s resolute. So I don’t know where we are between Z8 and Z10 long term.
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Re: The Permanent Chastity/Denial Matrix
You can try a simple:
U - unlocked at times
N- never unlocked except for medical and travel
O - get some orgasms
D - Denied orgasms
I would be ND. Simple without going into levels and degrees of locking or orgasms.
U - unlocked at times
N- never unlocked except for medical and travel
O - get some orgasms
D - Denied orgasms
I would be ND. Simple without going into levels and degrees of locking or orgasms.
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@Tom Allen thank you for the matrix, this was really helpful in defining goals with my wife and I. I had seen it first on your blog which is where I sent her.
I had told her:
Anyways, just wanted to drop a note of thanks to you and the other contributors for putting the brain power in to make this a simple and very approachable tool for defining chastity in a relationship.
ETA: Here's my completed matrix. Curious if anyone would be interested in a web-based tool that would output a similar chart based on user input.
I had told her:
She responded:I would say my ideal is probably 10,10 but realistically I think 8/9,8/9 is achievable I'm curious what your idea is on what you think is realistic, and what you want it to be.
So we've settled on 8,8 as our mutual goal/agreement/ruleI think 7/8,7/8
Anyways, just wanted to drop a note of thanks to you and the other contributors for putting the brain power in to make this a simple and very approachable tool for defining chastity in a relationship.
ETA: Here's my completed matrix. Curious if anyone would be interested in a web-based tool that would output a similar chart based on user input.
Last edited by Locked_In_LV on Fri Feb 04, 2022 2:25 pm, edited 1 time in total.
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Re: The Permanent Chastity/Denial Matrix
It's interesting to see this scale keep coming around. I guess it's easy enough to understand, and that makes it easier to explain to others.
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