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So I have only had my cage for about two days. At the same time that I bought it, I bought a prostate massager. Over the first 24 hrs wearing the cage, I was so horny that I couldn't help myself...being self locked, I caved and jerked off after using the massager for a about 30 minutes, and it was quite the orgasm/release!

But since my primary goal of chastity is to reduce/eliminate my consumption of porn and masturbating, I did a more extensive prostate massage session last night. After a while, the release from my prostate stopped. So I am guessing that I completely milked my system? Ever since I did that, my libido has been noticeably and drastically lower...which I suppose is exactly the result I am looking for? It is slowly returning however.

So a few maybe stupid questions:

Is completely emptying the prostate a bad thing to do health wise?

It is normal for my libido to drop so drastically after being completely milked, right?

As long as there is no illl health effects from milking like that, I am going to try to make it 7 days without orgasm, and then milking again. I have read several older posts about long term chastity wearers having issues with "short fuses", so I am thinking a short edging session (without orgasm before re-caging) Midway between milkings will hopefully help prevent PE issues.

Any advice would be appreciated

No risk of fully emptying.

Not at all strange to have your libido drop, at least temporarily.

Short fuse varies by person. Being self-locked is likely different due to the lack of control. I used to have a short fuse if I didn’t orgasm at least weekly. Now I get short fused if my owner lets me cum more frequently. That’s just my wiring though.

Thanks for the reply! I figured that was the case, but just wanted to make sure. This is why I waited so long to get a cage, I don't want to make permanent changes to my libido/ability. Rather, I want to improve my sexual wholesomeness in preparation for when I find a wife.

It's only been 24hrs since the complete milking and I was awakne early straining in the cage for the first time, like reaaaallllly straining. So this is going to depend on my self control a lot. I've been able to refrain for masturbating for decent lengths without the cage before, but it always seemed I would have phases where I would swing entirely the other way when I finally gave in.

Because of my age (still on the young side) and my high natural sex drive, this is going to be an interesting week. I may have to make adjustments as I go.

In light of this, I have a couple more questions. Even though I was completely milked, I was still very horny, just pretty much "spent" and kept playing for a while afterwards. I presume this is normal? There isn't any dangers on continuing afterwards, right?

Thanks for replies

Even though I was completely milked, I was still very horny, just pretty much "spent" and kept playing for a while afterwards. I presume this is normal? There isn't any dangers on continuing afterwards, right?

No, no danger at all, in fact, I have read about some women enjoying the fact that a completely milked prostate may allow the cock to remain hard for as long as they wish to use it, without the danger of an orgasm/ejaculation spoiling their fun...though that may be somewhat frustrating for the guy to whom said cock is attached...

SelfLocked wrote: ↑Sun Sep 29, 2019 3:12 am In light of this, I have a couple more questions. Even though I was completely milked, I was still very horny, just pretty much "spent" and kept playing for a while afterwards. I presume this is normal? There isn't any dangers on continuing afterwards, right?

Thanks for replies

No danger and entirely normal. Example - when my owner makes me orgasm when being pegged, it doesn’t stop until she’s finished, which can go a while longer, regardless of position.

Just make sure you keep lubing enough. It’s easy to forget in the heat of the moment and risk injury.

Hi Selflocked. In practical terms the advice on this thread on prostate milking is sound. Stay lubed and you won't come to any harm. Good on you with your anal orgasms - I love anal play but have yet to achieve this.

My main thought though is your adopting chastity and prostate massage to reduce masturbation, because masturbation itself is similarly harmless. As I understand it the idea behind milking (apart from it being fun of course) is to keep the prostate healthy by a, say, monthly massage to allay (possible and alleged) health risks of prolonged periods without orgasm.

If you find you are continually milking yourself, might there be a danger that you've replaced one compulsive behaviour with another?

Well, unfortunately I have never been able to achieve a prostate orgasm, although that is one of my goals. Merely that I completely drained it until there was no more precum secretion. There was one point where I think I got started on a fraction of the way, I wasn't able to sustain it. Got closer than I ever have before.

That is a good point that you make. I'll have to think about that some more. My first thought is that I would prefer to use milking as a reward for refraining from pornography and jerking off too much in this first phase. I will see how I do with this first week, and experiment with how much I can hopefully extend the time in between.

Great insight!

It's been 3 weeks since I had an orgasm and I am feeling pretty horny. My wife was away this afternoon and I got out a dildo and used it on my ass. This is the first time I have used a dildo after being denied this long. It was an amazing feeling. There was no fluid coming out except for a little pre-cum but it felt like I had a constant orgasm going on. Not as intense as when I orgasm (cum) but it was a really good feeling that lasted as long as I kept pushing the dildo in and out