How secure can it get ??

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Re: How secure can it get ??

Post by Chastityat60 » Thu Oct 17, 2019 8:43 am

Yes.. you're probably right about the pa. I'm just not up to that yet. This is why I mention that chastity is an honor system. Some have mentioned that they could pull out but .. why?.. my point. Short of a fully covered unit or a piercing, I'm on that same honor system. Keeping myself for only.
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Re: How secure can it get ??

Post by TwistedMister » Fri Oct 18, 2019 3:28 am

Chastityat60 wrote:
Thu Oct 17, 2019 8:43 am
...Some have mentioned that they could pull out but .. why?.. .
Can't resist the temptation.

For some of us, not having any choice, not needing to exercise 'willpower' is the 'holy grail'.
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Re: How secure can it get ??

Post by Chastityat60 » Fri Oct 18, 2019 7:02 am

My bad if I said it wrongly,.. The intent was to highlight that some in chastity, or flr, would not consider sneaking out for a quickie.. even if they could.. and many can... But don't. As I said , I'm older, and I'm in a completely different place than many on this site. Although I can pull out, I do not give myself permission to do anything but clean, then back in. Having to have the willpower, to be kept for her is important to me. So, for me it's been 2 weeks, 24/7 in the tube. I can hear the chuckles.."wow, 2. Whole weeks,",. "man,How can you stand it??",,well, for me,2 weeks is a long time
Last O was after a full month in my cheap tube.I know, you guys live this, I'm just a newb @60.
Not sure if we will do anything this weekend or not.Busy schedule and horny as hell..Sure, I could pull out and take care of myself but why.,... Hey, no laughing, trying to build some credibility here..lol
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Re: How secure can it get ??

Post by Chastityat60 » Tue Nov 05, 2019 11:06 am

So here I am rewriting a post that somehow went away.... I have recently discovered and decided that the ring I was using on my V3 was too big. I casually informed my wife that I was downsizing to the next smaller ring. Not that she would notice or care... Just as a matter of honesty. She knows I pull out for cleaning and cares not if I masturbate. The point to this is little update is probably trite to most of you. I have read of the many difficulties in Getting ring size right.and the other aspects of living the journey. So, last night was my first night in a better ( more appropriate) fitting ring. Luckily I kept all the rings that came with my V3. Now I wasn't quite ready for being woken up 3 times from the raging nighttime efforts of the body to do some stretching... Or the discomfort that came with all that.. reminded me of a post where someones KH said " if it's causing you discomfort then I guess you'll just have to stop doing that." ... Good point. But at 1,3and5 AM, I just had to wait it out.. By morning I decided I was able to continue wearing it. So with moisturizer cream in hand off to work I went. Remember that quick pullout for cleaning? Not so quick right now . As a matter of fact, I'm not so sure I'll be able to pull out at all yet. Going to have to wait for things to settle down. Meanwhile, very secure, and a bit unsure of how wife will act with the news of my new level. I did not think a 5 mm smaller ring would make this much of a difference.
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Re: How secure can it get ??

Post by Chastityat60 » Tue Nov 05, 2019 8:42 pm

So, I made it through the day. Tube got a bit of a workout but held together beautifully. Straining inside lasted most of the day. By 4 ish things began to subside a bit. The challenge now was to see if I could still slip out for cleaning. Took considerable effort but was able to get out. Getting back in was twice as difficult. Dealing with that tip that bulges through the pee slit. Wanting to put a band aid over it.. I am beginning, just beginning to understand what the chastity journey looks like. Not sure if this smaller ring is going to last more than a week. It's pretty tight. I can barely fit my finger tip under the ring. That is my " give it a chance" time frame. If it seems at all positive by Monday, I'll give it another week. And so on. That sounds so lame, I know.. . In the back of my mind, I'm hoping over time, as I get more serious about my desire for chastity, I will get the opportunity to live a better level of commitment to my spoken desire for being kept for her. Maybe her assessment is correct. She says "If it's not secure then what's the point? " She smiles as I remove my device for our love making. We both know its been a bit of a game that she has played along with. So I'm going to see what I can do to up my game a bit . I will try to endure this smaller ring which eliminates the daily cleaning pull out. She will have to be told by the end of November that I am using the keys for access for cleaning. This is a big step for me. If I can stick with it, it will mean a more secure style of chastity rather than the more casual style I have enjoyed playing around with.
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Re: How secure can it get ??

Post by Schnoff » Tue Nov 05, 2019 10:30 pm

5mm is a lot, as you found out. Your ideal size may be in between. 2mm one way or another can make a world of difference.
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Re: How secure can it get ??

Post by Chastityat60 » Wed Nov 06, 2019 6:27 am

I agree. There seems to be enough material on this ring that I could probably file and sand a bit . Maybe just a bout 1-2 mm along the bottom where the sack wants to wrinkle and fold over it's self. Hard to keep everything smooth and flat..
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Re: How secure can it get ??

Post by Bunny » Wed Nov 06, 2019 12:26 pm

Woot,woot!

Hurray for the new setting.

I also bulged out through the pee slit. I think it’s kinda hot.

As someone mentioned above, a lock through a PA would prevent any pullout. :)
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Re: How secure can it get ??

Post by Chastityat60 » Thu Nov 07, 2019 8:53 pm

Ok, so, the smaller ring was just about to put me over the edge... filed about 1 mm all the way around the ring and up near the top on each side enlarged the the hump area. Seems to have made a world of difference. Still much tighter than the larger ring, and still requires considerable effort to pull out. Told the wife today that pulling out for cleaning is no longer an option. That I have moved to a smaller ring, and that cleaning will require the key. This seems to not be a big deal to her. I did not expect it to be. Just taking the next step.
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Re: How secure can it get ??

Post by Chastityat60 » Fri Nov 08, 2019 3:55 pm

I had decided a week age prior to moving to the smaller ring that I needed to do something about the nut and bolt holding the tube to the ring. When using only the magic lock, there was too much sideways movement. When first on, seems just fine, after a while, a considerable amount of gap occurs. The nut and bolt held it all together perfectly. Problem was, a screw driver became the key. So last week I went back with the regular magic lock and slid a ty rap around the tube capture area. It works perfectly. A simple solution. Now, I'm in a better place. I not only need the key for cleaning, but also need to cut a ty-rap each time I remove it. I was afraid the lock itself might break if bent too much,, seems cheap..( oh yeah, that's right, I paid 17 bucks for it..lol). The ty-rap seems to hold the interlocking parts together just as the nut and bolt did . :P
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