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Ladies whose idea it was first...

Posted: Fri Jul 26, 2019 1:50 pm
by sarahs9
I'd love to hear from any of the ladies on here who introduced this to your husband first. It seems that most of the couples on here it was the husband bringing it up.

Re: Ladies whose idea it was first...

Posted: Sat Jul 27, 2019 9:04 am
by KittensBoyToy
You didn't give any information in your profile. If you are a female key holder you can asked for access to the Key holders forum. That area is restricted to the ladies only. Things are discussed there without the men being able to comment or even read them.

Re: Ladies whose idea it was first...

Posted: Sat Jul 27, 2019 10:30 am
by wishful4
It seems to be the male that introduces it to the females most times. Over the years, we have had several women on this forum that introduced it to their husbands. They were some of our best members of the forum and then, they just disappeared. They have been sorely missed. Women have a unique perspective on relationships and MC that's kind of refreshing. As I recall (sometimes I don't), one such lady read about MC in a fictional story she was reading. It struck a chord with her and she talked with her hubby about it and ran with the idea. I'll probably get some flack from the ladies on this, but many seem to have a hard time understanding MC and the potential if could have for their relationship, my spouse being one of those. Many do it, I suspect, just to please us. Some of that is our fault because we don't include them from the start when we find that MC is something that we are interested in. But, that's a discussion for another thread.