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55 days I cant prevent the leakage with my wife she does all she can to edge me any way shape or form

May be I am a lot crueler than I thought, reading this thread, because I haven't allowed my sub an orgasm for 896 days...

MistressAria wrote: ↑Sat Sep 14, 2019 9:32 pm May be I am a lot crueler than I thought, reading this thread, because I haven't allowed my sub an orgasm for 896 days...

I think I might become...discouraged...if I were to go that long, I need to get the carrot every now and then, not just the stick all the time.

TwistedMister wrote: ↑Sun Sep 15, 2019 7:11 am

MistressAria wrote: ↑Sat Sep 14, 2019 9:32 pm May be I am a lot crueler than I thought, reading this thread, because I haven't allowed my sub an orgasm for 896 days...

I think I might become...discouraged...if I were to go that long, I need to get the carrot every now and then, not just the stick all the time.

Yep, 2 1/2 years might be a bit more than I could handle!

Neat! 2 1/2 years won’t happen for me, Bear likes to see me come too much for that - and, it’s a fun fantasy.

Around here, ejaculation is orgasm, whether with or without stimulation during it or in the moments before it. Other couples define that differently.

A woman on fet was relating her experience and said that she started having almost out of body experiences around day 500 when being teased. As in, she was squirming and desperate, but also observing herself in that state, somewhat detached.

How has the experience been for your sub? Month 24 is like month 6, or were there marked changes?

I'm not doing so well on this front at the moment. 2018 was an orgasm-free year (excluding half-a-dozen ruins, about which I'm conflicted because they do strike me as cheating).

I had hoped to build on this in 2019 and She seemed to be in support. But She can't get over her feeling that commanding me to cum or ruin is a kindness to me. So this year I had to have a full orgasm to celebrate New Year, another on my birthday (a landmark age) and three! over a single week in August to celebrate Her birthday. In addition, I've had several ruins because She likes to watch me eat my cum. Ruins aren't so bad as long as I'm very careful indeed, but it takes me at least a week after a full orgasm to get back into "the zone".

@Steve2059 Sounds familiar . I keep reminding myself that the whole point of the game is that my orgasm belongs to my spouse. That can mean having me come for his amusement, or to not come because he wants to reward me that way. My job is to be grateful either way.

So, newly back on the chastity wagon since August. Average about 3 weeks.,, 2 weeks since first real ruined o ,, no milking on the schedule, tried a few random times,,other.. some leakage about every day while in device depending on how horny I am.

I just got locked again last night after three weeks out. She hasn't told me how long yet.

Schnoff wrote: ↑Tue Oct 01, 2019 9:35 am @Steve2059 Sounds familiar . I keep reminding myself that the whole point of the game is that my orgasm belongs to my spouse. That can mean having me come for his amusement, or to not come because he wants to reward me that way. My job is to be grateful either way.

Well said, I need to remember this too. Recently, she's wanted me to cum more (maybe much more) than I'd prefer. But, since she owns the cock, it truly is her decision when I release and this is something I must work on, accepting her decisions! I am relieved she told me to lock-up this morning. Sometimes, I honestly feel adrift uncaged.