In the beginning, I made up a whole crapload of rules. I think Mrs. Twisted was overwhelmed by the list, and didn't read/understand all of it.
So, a lot of our 'play' is not quite so formally structured. Because I am attracted to a certain element of 'unknown', in the beginning I devised an elaborate set of procedures using playing cards drawn from a deck to establish a defined 'Period of Service'...the catch was that I would not see the cards drawn, which provided Mrs. Twisted the opportunity to 'lie' and set any period she desired. In actual practice, the method was only used once, and now she simply tells me what the initial period is going to be. However, during our last session I did propose an 'official' 'Rule', which she accepted- this Rule allows her (if she wishes) to extend the 'Period of Service' by assigning 'Penalty Months' for any emission of semen. Any 'leakage' such as during edging, which does not involve an actual orgasm, may be penalized by adding one additional month. A 'ruined' orgasm may be penalized by two months, and a full orgasm by three months. She is not 'required' to impose these penalties, but may do so if she wishes, which basically gives her the freedom to extend the 'Game' indefinitely.
Our [mostly] unwritten Rules have devolved to, once the cage goes on she decides what, when and how any sexual activity will occur. I can expect to be denied orgasm for a minimum of one month, up to a maximum of three months (I have a 'Hard Limit' of three months). I am 'required' to perform, participate in, or be subject to any sexual/semi-sexual/fetish activities she desires (except for some 'hard Limits' involving blood, knives, needles, etc., two sexual acts are prohibited- forcing me to kiss or rim another guy). Mrs. Twisted is free to use any amount of bondage, force, pain or other coercion to compel my participation/performance, any activity not specifically prohibited by my list of 'Hard Limits' is 'on the table', regardless of any desire or lack thereof to participate in such activities. I do not have a 'safeword' to escape from any activities that I may find undesirable, objectionable or otherwise lack the desire to participate in, and she is free to continue to compel my participation regardless of any expressions I might make to indicate that I do not want to participate. (Note: These conditions subject me to the risk that I could be truly forced to participate in sexual activities which I genuinely find undesirable, in which I would not otherwise *willingly* participate, and from which I would choose to escape if such a choice was available to me. These conditions can (and have) put me in the position of being forced to do things that I *really* don't want to do with no 'escape hatch', I find this risk, and reality, erotic. I DO NOT recommend this to anyone else. Use appropriate limits and safewords to manage your risk at a level acceptable to you.)
Mrs. Twisted is free to engage in any sexual activities she desires, with any person or persons she desires, with the stipulation that I am aware and/or somehow participating in such activities ("It's not 'cheating' if your husband is watching"), while my sexual activities are restricted to only what she allows or compels.
Based on recent events and expressions over the last few months (which I have noted in some other posts), I have a feeling that there is going to be a new 'Rule' forthcoming during the next session of 'The Game'...which is going to involve me becoming much more familiar with the taste of semen (Yuck!)
There are some other 'rules' but I currently lack the time...
04/07/19 "And then I 'punished' you by making you lick my pussy after I let my other 'boy' fuck me." --Mrs. Twisted