Finding the sweet spot

Living the real life under lock and key
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365Daytona
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Finding the sweet spot

Post by 365Daytona » Thu May 02, 2019 3:55 pm

After some discussion about cage size with the Chastity Device forum, I opted for a smaller cage. I think for all practical purposes, I have found the right combination of cage and ring size. My penis shrinks during the day ( I'm a grower, not a shower) and the small cage is comfortable and minimizes movement that leads to chafing. The pressure around my balls is the only real indicator of wearing a cock cage. If I am nude, then no real sensation of wearing it at all!
Very happy to have found the sweet spot. Thanks to all who gave advice in this matter. I have been in continuous chastity for 5 days now. I can shower and keep my device and penis sanitary without having to remove it. I suspect that I will continue indefinitely. The only time I will release myself (self-enforced chastity) is to have intercourse with my wife. She doesn't have any issues with my love of chastity. I will reiterate that I simply love the idea and the practice of keeping my cock locked up and available only to my wife.
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Update on the Sweet Spot

Post by 365Daytona » Tue May 07, 2019 11:51 am

I am now at day 10 of continuous chastity, with the notable exception of intercourse on Sunday last. I released myself for that instance and then after a shower, locked myself up again. I have become more accustomed to the device than before. I go to the gym, workout with no incidence of slipping out of the A ring so far. I have genuinely embraced this as a lifestyle.
I did approach my wife regarding her role as keyholder. She had no objections as I couched my argument in terms of helping me safeguard against masturbation and porn consumption. So far we have not broached the subject again, however I plan to keep suggesting that we integrate her keyholding into controlling my sexual activity beyond masturbation prevention into orgasm control.
My desire to expand my chastity into our sexual life may soon be realized.
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Re: Update on the Sweet Spot

Post by KittensBoyToy » Tue May 07, 2019 4:45 pm

365Daytona wrote:
Tue May 07, 2019 11:51 am

My desire to expand my chastity into our sexual life may soon be realized.
As is often warned, "BCWYWF".
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Re: Finding the sweet spot

Post by 365Daytona » Wed May 08, 2019 12:58 pm

That reply "BCWYWF" sounds ominous. Care to elucidate?
Aside, I am becoming so comfortable in my chastity device, I feel uncomfortable when it is removed. I had a testicle slip out yesterday so I had to wait until getting home from work to reset everything. I felt so relieved once I had locked myself securely again, went to bed and slept soundly.
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Re: Finding the sweet spot

Post by sirmebane » Wed May 08, 2019 3:55 pm

BCWYWF is "Be Careful What You Wish For" as many of us have found, once your keyholder/wife is on board and you're locked, things tend to become permanent and escalate quickly.

You are already showing symptoms of a long term chaste male... feeling uneasy when unlocked.
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Re: Finding the sweet spot

Post by 365Daytona » Wed May 08, 2019 4:48 pm

I have read your reply with great interest. I took the time to read some of your blog and find some similarities in my experiences with getting started. Perhaps I should have my wife read some beginner's material for females whose husbands and partners are enthusiastic about chastity and the lifestyle.
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