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Since age 55, presumably due to a somewhat enlarged prostate, the longer I go between ejaculations, the more difficult it is to start a urine stream and the slower the stream is. Consequently, during extended lock up periods, I occasionally ejaculate while in my Jailbird using my wife's Hitachi. For me, it is NOT a pleasant experience.

I found I can orgasm in the cage and have done so twice. I would consider that cheating but not the masterbation itself. It just gets me more hot and bothered and eager to please.

Knowing I can cum without the key is kind of a bummer but it is more of a ruined O and not always comfortable though it does relieve some tension. But it too often makes me want to please her more to get a full orgasm. After a long time, one O isn’t enough to “clean the pipes”

Critter228 wrote: ↑Thu May 09, 2019 7:52 am I found I can orgasm in the cage and have done so twice. I would consider that cheating but not the masterbation itself. It just gets me more hot and bothered and eager to please.

I have a range of orgasms in the cage, usually from having sex, but never while masturbating. For some reason, I can't get myself off in the cage, unless I'm using a vibrator. Shaking and messing with the cage just isnt' enough - although maybe that's because the novelty has worn off.

Knowing I can cum without the key is kind of a bummer but it is more of a ruined O and not always comfortable though it does relieve some tension. But it too often makes me want to please her more to get a full orgasm. After a long time, one O isn’t enough to “clean the pipes”

Same here. plus, because the orgasm is just never "enough", the next morning I'm raring to go again.

I adopted male chastity with the notion of controlling porn consumption and masturbation. Since committing to full confinement 24/7 (locked for 11 days now) which is self-imposed, I have managed to cease masturbation but have had lapses of porn consumption. I unlock when I have intercourse with my wife, however after intimacy and a shower I lock up again. I want my wife to be the center of my sexual desire and I do want her to adopt a more active role in my chastity regimen. That may come in due time. I have been cautioned to be careful what i wish for! I don't feel apprehensive. I am ready to accept what comes in due time.