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Still no orgasm this year....

Posted: Tue Jan 15, 2019 3:17 pm
by fuzzydunlop
Do you ever really feel in your gut that you are getting close to your emotional limits?

We’ve been on an epic streak of denial play for about a year, where it’s not totally gone away. I haven’t MB’d at all. About half my orgasms are from ruined handjobs. The other half from PIV.

The last time I had PIV was before Christmas. I had one ruined orgasm at the end of December. Wife and i have a scene planned for Thursday. She has indicated it will end with a ruined orgasm, at best. How exactly, I am not sure. She’s gotten much better at “hang time” on handjobs over the last year. She’s indicated that we will go back to intercourse not long thereafter, but we’ve spent time planning the scene.

This can all screw with my head even after playing for years. We’ve been watching some steamy shows—Wanderlust—on Netflix. Denial usually seems like a “game” but my emotional need to engage in some fucking is more elevated than usual. Thursday will end with a bit of sting. My visiualizariom of sex is growing more vivid the longer I’ve gone on.

Re: Still no orgasm this year....

Posted: Wed Jan 16, 2019 12:11 pm
by KittensBoyToy
Emotions are off the scale for both of us with Kitten in the hospital for almost a month. Sex, play, T&D are obviously out of the question for the most part. Masturbation is out of the question. I had to be unlocked for a few days last week and even being home alone I never even considered it.

Being new to chastity we are still learning. Kitten has yet to learn the techniques for edging (or me being able to stop her at just the right time)and ruined orgasms.

Our last PIV, and my last orgasm, was December 8 and since we never have 'scheduled' sessions I don't know when the next time will be. Although it is frustrating I am happy to leave that decision up to her.

Re: Still no orgasm this year....

Posted: Wed Jan 23, 2019 9:18 am
by sls01234
Same here, not caged but still no O

Re: Still no orgasm this year....

Posted: Wed Jan 23, 2019 9:21 am
by gilesenglish
fuzzydunlop wrote: Tue Jan 15, 2019 3:17 pm Do you ever really feel in your gut that you are getting close to your emotional limits?
Oddly no, which is kind of scary. I've been locked for ove 5 months now.