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Confession

Posted: Tue Jan 01, 2019 5:24 pm
by happilylockedman
I am basically self locked. My wife has a key that she usually wears around her neck but I have total access to another key that's in the bathroom. I usually take the key into the shower, remove the cage so I can wash thoroughly and replace the cage still in the shower. All well and good. Except for one time several months ago I resist the temptation to jerk off while washing. That warm soapy water sure feels good ... but I don't.

But, I do play with my cock while it's locked. It feels great to push and pull and prod and poke. I can't and don't have an orgasm but I definitely play with myself.

I think that my doing that is contrary to the spirit of my being in chastity but that doesn't seem to stop me.

Re: Confession

Posted: Tue Jan 01, 2019 5:36 pm
by slave d
Perhaps you need to tell your wife that you’re still playing with yourself while locked and that you “need” to be punished for that !

MsM’s ld

Re: Confession

Posted: Tue Jan 01, 2019 7:52 pm
by Tom Allen
My wife has a key that she usually wears around her neck but I have total access to another key that's in the bathroom. I usually take the key into the shower, remove the cage so I can wash thoroughly and replace the cage still in the shower.


We have a similar arrangement (her key is in a jewelry box someplace), and I have one in the bathroom for cleaning. But since I only need to remove it about once a month, I'm not tempted as often.

As we get into longer and longer term, though, I have been thinking about at least sending her a text or letting her know when I'm taking it into the shower, just to add to the play. She doesn't have any objection to my touching her property, although I try to keep it to two minutes or less.

I guess you could ask your wife for the key when you clean up. At least she would have an idea of how long you were taking.

Re: Confession

Posted: Tue Jan 01, 2019 8:23 pm
by happilylockedman
Slave D,

Your suggestion has me thinking. How would she react to that information? Would she be upset with me?
Would she want to punish me?

The thought of that gets me excited...and kind of scared. I think I want that ...but I'm not sure I do. Of course, I don't know what we'd be talking about for 'punishment'. She's never been into corporal punishment, saying that she'd have to be mad at me to hit me and she doesn't want to feel those feelings towards me. Which I totally get, and appreciate.

Still, thinking about her spanking me with whatever is exciting for me.

Re: Confession

Posted: Tue Jan 01, 2019 8:34 pm
by slave d
For what it’s worth MsM didn’t want to hit me either but when i explained that i needed both punishment and reward She tried paddling me and slowly reached the stage where i get a frequent paddling to remind me of my place. She now has a cane as well and is slowly getting used to using that for punishment. She sees 2 different things, discipline which is Her reminding me of Her power and authority and Punishment which is for when i don’t perform to Her expectations. Believe me, when She gets angry and says “go to the bedroom and adopt the position” i know my backside is going to be hurting !! and honestly i am always swollen and aching in Her cage as She paddles or canes me. It’s not that i like pain, i don’t, BUT i do love Her showing Her authority and dominance, that’s what gets me really turned on.

Re: Confession

Posted: Tue Jan 01, 2019 9:53 pm
by KittensBoyToy
This is not where, or to whom you should be confessing. You know what needs to be done without being told....
slave d wrote:
Tue Jan 01, 2019 8:34 pm

honestly i am always swollen and aching in Her cage as She paddles or canes me. It’s not that i like pain, i don’t, BUT i do love Her showing Her authority and dominance, that’s what gets me really turned on.
The same for me!

Re: Confession

Posted: Wed Jan 02, 2019 4:57 am
by TwistedMister
Mrs. Twisted was similar...until she discovered that slapping my cock makes her 'wet', and she likes slapping my balls too, which does not seem particularly 'violent' to her yet can be quite 'motivating' for me.