I am locked since about 3 months witout release in a Custom Chastity „Saint“. Because I am a grower and not circumcised, I am used to deal with the issues that wearing a cage brings along. This is perfectly fine since it serves as another reminder of my fiancée’s power over me, despite us being separated for months. The toughest issues, as I guess is true for most growers, are nocturnal erections. After all this time, I have not found a satisfying solution.
I have encountered three types of pain:
1. Pulling on your balls. That one is well known. For me, it is more the pressure of the base ring on the balls left and right and it is quite unbearable. I was allowed to swap out the base ring to a tighter fit which helped a lot.
2. Folded skin. The skin on the underside of my scrotum is very loose. This means that it is bunched up by the base ring. These folds get pinched during erections which gives a burning sensation. I found that applying silicone lube helps to rearrange the skin if applied only to the underside of the scrotum, otherwise a good lubing will lead to pain #1.
3. Inward growth. I have also experienced pain due to swelling of the parts behind the base ring which seem to push into my lower body. The sensation is unpleasant and can best be described as dull but persistent (similar to getting hit on the nuts). Here it may help to assume a fetal position on your side as it reliefes some of the preassure, but most times getting up to pee and walk it off work better.
What made it worse in the beginning was that the pain makes you focus on the cage, which is arrousing and thus starts a cycle that keeps you from sleeping. That being said, I don’t mind these erections as they tell me that I am still fully functional and morning wood gets the day going, but I could do with less pain.
I have experimented with the cage size. My penis is always touching the cage on all sides unless it completely shrivels up. I have shortened the effective cage lengh to 2/3 by inserting tightly folded up tissue papers but that makes no difference (yes the “Saint” gives you that much access but you are still not going anywhere
). In any case, a different cage is not an option because there is absolutely no way this cage is comming off for at least another month.Do you know any / all of these pains? What works for you dealing with them?
