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Bird in a Cage wrote: ↑Wed Oct 24, 2018 10:28 am Gamification.
In my humble opinion.

Kitten wrote: ↑Wed Oct 24, 2018 12:14 pm I wish you the best of luck on your weight loss journey. Also, I totally agree that chastity needs to be fun in addition to having a purpose. Without the fun side it would become a chore ... and who needs another chore?

Just a tad bit of history here ... I was a tiny 5'4" person most of my life, was 102# soaking wet in jeans when we were married, topped out at 110# after 2 kids, and in my late 50's I weighed about 145#. I've been on the 'weight loss' merry-go-round for a little over 4 years now. I looked in the mirror one day and a beached whale looked back at me. I promptly got the scale out and stepped onto it. When saw 292 I was mortified! Over the years I had jumped from size 3 to 4x. OUCH!!!

I'm not a chef by any stretch of the imagination, but I am a hell of a cook and taste testing has akways been a biggie for me. KBT is a meat & taters kinda guy (and only has a 37" waist), so down-home Texas cookin' is always on the menu. In addition to that, I'm an insulin dependent diabetic & supposed to eat 6 times a day. Not a good combination for weight loss. I knew that fad diets don't work long term and exercise wasn't an option since I was in a wheelchair 24/7. But I knew I had to DO something.

To make a long story short, I've had a couple setbacks over the past 4 years, like visiting my family up in WA state for a month last summer with lots of restaurants & tons of fast food. That one set me back quite a bit. Anyway, as of this morning I stepped on the scale at 174#. Still have a way to go but am feeling much better & not in the 'chair' 24/7 anymore. All total (including the added pounds I've had to re-lose) I've lost a little over 150# ... that's a whole fluffy person .

Ummm, I forgot to mention how I'm doing it. I decided that changing how I eat could work. And it has! I take smaller portions and no longer subscribe to my old school training of eating everything on my plate ... when I've had enough I just stop eating. I also (most of the time) try to eat healthy snack foods instead of the high fat junk I used to eat for my 3 daily snacks.

Don't know if this is of any interest or not, but just wanted you to know you're not alone in this oh so common life struggle.

Bird in a Cage wrote: ↑Wed Oct 24, 2018 2:02 pm Question for the KHs on this post... how do female orgasms affect your hunger and eating habits? For my wife, an orgasm temporarily removes any thoughts of hunger, but watch out the next morning—she’s ravenous!