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I'm not proud of it but yesterday I was playing with myself through the bars of my cage. It felt good, really good. I picked up a therapeutic vibrator and touched it to the cage. I knew where this was going and I let it go there. Oh, it felt good but I expected to have the let down that I usually have after an orgasm.

I'm kind of surprised that this morning I feel pretty much the same as before, balls kind of full and ready for the action that won't be coming.

Did I have a 'ruined orgasm' ?

You may have had a "stifled" orgasm, but a ruined one is where the stimulation (the vibrator in your case) is removed at the point of no return and you are left to dribble to your great frustration.

No, a "ruined" orgasm is when you ejaculate without the intense pleasure associated with a normal orgasm. As Namron said, stimulation is applied up to the point of no return and immediately stopped. There may be a moment or two between when stimulation stops and semen starts flowing. In other words, semen comes out but you don't feel much of anything other than the fluid passing (much like urination).

I had it happen to me a couple of years ago, I wasn't trying to ruin the orgasm but I had stopped masturbating and must have been closer than I thought. Semen just came flowing out without any sort of pleasure. It was very weird.

In addition to what Namron and Adam444 said, a ruined orgasm avoids the contractions that result in the ejaculation (and pleasure). The semen just sorta dribbles out but not forcefully. Your load is going to be less and won't shoot far. In my case, I can maintain my erection and I'm pretty sure I could have a second ruined if she wanted me to. I realize the term erection is a little strange since you were caged, but did you go flaccid at all?

I find it very difficult to ruin my own orgasms, intentionally. Wife is actually very good at it (although it's been a long time!).

Yeah, I did sort of go flaccid in the cage after I came. I also felt a tremendous sense of relief (that I'm sure a lot of you can relate to ) as well as disappointment in myself that I had done it.

By the way, today I was suprised to see in the first page of youporn suggestions a chastity video: that was LianaGood making her hubby cum while caged, with the help of a vibrator
https://pornhub.com/view_video.php?view ... 9a4ffcb9d6
Isn't that sexy?