Is My Friend Hinting?

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Is My Friend Hinting?

Post by happilylockedman » Thu Oct 18, 2018 6:56 am

A fairly new male friend of mine has referred to "bits" a few times, talking about genitals. The first, and only, place I've seen bits used that way has been here on Chastity Forums.

Have I just been out of the loop? Is "bits" a term that is out there in the general population? Or is he hinting at his own involvement in genital play?
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Re: Is My Friend Hinting?

Post by Adam444 » Thu Oct 18, 2018 7:05 am

That's an interesting question and an even more interesting conversation. As a straight man I don't have a lot of conversations with other men about genitals but I think a lot of guys refer to it as their "junk."

I did work with a girl several years ago that was also a model. Her online profile indicated that she was willing to take her clothes off as long as her "bits and pieces" were covered.
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Re: Is My Friend Hinting?

Post by Tom Allen » Thu Oct 18, 2018 7:22 am

It's probably akin to that phenomenon in which you buy a red car, and suddenly notice how many other red cars are on the road.
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Re: Is My Friend Hinting?

Post by filltee » Thu Oct 18, 2018 8:06 am

happilylockedman wrote:
Thu Oct 18, 2018 6:56 am
A fairly new male friend of mine has referred to "bits" a few times, talking about genitals.
I do not find this use of the word 'bits' unusual and it could come from anywhere maybe that's how genitals were referred to in his childood by his elders. Or perhaps one of of his partners has done so.

I'd read nothing into it at all. Besides if he was hinting and you have not takenthe hint by now he would probably ramp things up a little or forget bout it altogether.
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Re: Is My Friend Hinting?

Post by Bird in a Cage » Thu Oct 18, 2018 9:21 am

Doesn’t the common vernacular in GB use “bits” as a substitute for parts, pieces, and items? Could be word choice based on nationality.
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Re: Is My Friend Hinting?

Post by Gargoyle » Thu Oct 18, 2018 5:59 pm

It’s a generic term used by many in the old English colonies.
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Re: Is My Friend Hinting?

Post by anominus » Fri Oct 19, 2018 2:43 pm

Tom Allen wrote:
Thu Oct 18, 2018 7:22 am
It's probably akin to that phenomenon in which you buy a red car, and suddenly notice how many other red cars are on the road.
This phenomenon is usually called "The frequency illusion", but is still also referred to as the "Baader Meinhof phenomenon" - see https://www.damninteresting.com/the-baa ... henomenon/
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Re: Is My Friend Hinting?

Post by Tom Allen » Fri Oct 19, 2018 5:02 pm

Yeah, I was too lazy to look it up. 😏
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Re: Is My Friend Hinting?

Post by Cueball » Sat Oct 20, 2018 10:01 am

Monty Python did a whole episode on how to identify the "Naughty Bits" and other parts of the body. So I think the term would be common among python fans.

Tutorial starts about 2:00:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sff2H92YdXs
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Re: Is My Friend Hinting?

Post by MeanChristine » Sat Oct 20, 2018 11:40 am

I refer to my husbands genitals as bits on conversation to be polite. He says junk, cock, dick, nuts, balls and other names. Talking to him and some others I'll use terms equally as crude. In my opinion one man talking to an other man about his bits seems a meak and mild.... But that's just me.
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