Self Stimulation While Locked

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happilylockedman
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Self Stimulation While Locked

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I've been wearing a short Chinese cage for several months now. I find it to be much more comfortable than the HT I was using before. It's easy to keep clean in the shower and there's no irritation. But here's the thing: I'm always touching myself. When I push on the whole cage it feels good. When I tap on the cage it feels good. When I put a finger through one of the openings it feels good. Never to the point of orgasm. I don't know if I could take it that far. I don't want to come and I don't try to come but I am always pleasuring myself.

I think it might be taking some of my focus off my wife but, truth be told, she's not interested in sexual stimulation in either direction as often as I would like her to be. Maybe my self play is a healthy expression of my sexuality. As I'm writing this I realize that I need to talk about this with her. That conversation will be yet another beneficial result of my chastity. Previously I would have been ashamed to talk about this and she would have been uncomfortable hearing it.
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That's the tease of chastity! No matter how much you touch, it never gets as good as a free erection! At some point you will give up and just SUBMIT TO THE CAGE! Hahaha.
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happilylockedman wrote:I've been wearing a short Chinese cage for several months now. I find it to be much more comfortable than the HT I was using before. It's easy to keep clean in the shower and there's no irritation. But here's the thing: I'm always touching myself. When I push on the whole cage it feels good. When I tap on the cage it feels good. When I put a finger through one of the openings it feels good. Never to the point of orgasm. I don't know if I could take it that far. I don't want to come and I don't try to come but I am always pleasuring myself.

I think it might be taking some of my focus off my wife but, truth be told, she's not interested in sexual stimulation in either direction as often as I would like her to be. Maybe my self play is a healthy expression of my sexuality. As I'm writing this I realize that I need to talk about this with her. That conversation will be yet another beneficial result of my chastity. Previously I would have been ashamed to talk about this and she would have been uncomfortable hearing it.
I think what you do is normal. I do it all the time. I try to stick my pinkie finger through the bars of my jailbird quite a bit. Its actually pretty pathetic...lol. And sometimes my wife will allow me to be unlocked for a day or two, and I will constantly play with myself. Not to the point of orgasm, or even ejaculation though, because I am in an FLR and there are severe consequences for coming without the permission of my KH.

It may take some of the focus off of your wife, unless you think of your wife, or are looking at pictures of your wife when you do it. If you do that, then it is actually helping to build your desire for your wife. I attempt to play with myself all the time looking at pictures of my wife. I don't see anything wrong with it. Of course, I still wouldn't tell my wife about it.
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I have small sponge swabs on a plastic stick that I used to clean myself while locked. They also work very well to masturbate with since i can move them the entire length of my locked penis. I can and sometimes do edge myself that way. Like you, I do not want to cum but somethings I go too far and have to squeeze my muscles very hard to prevent an orgasm. Like many who are really in chastity, it is not the cage that keeps us chaste, but rather the promise.
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Had a ruined orgasm in my Steelheart the other day. Was very aroused and just a little jiggling of my cage and I released inside the tube. :o
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VinnyDee wrote:I have small sponge swabs on a plastic stick that I used to clean myself while locked. They also work very well to masturbate with since i can move them the entire length of my locked penis. I can and sometimes do edge myself that way. Like you, I do not want to cum but somethings I go too far and have to squeeze my muscles very hard to prevent an orgasm. Like many who are really in chastity, it is not the cage that keeps us chaste, but rather the promise.
The cage can definitely be beaten when it comes to masturbating. I feel like i am less likely to masturbate when i am locked though. Maybe it is because the sensation is not as good as when i am unlocked. Or maybe it is a mental thing. I think about masturbation less when i have the cage on.

My KH would sometimes be nice and allow me to be uncaged, but i almost always asked to be locked up. Simply because i dont trust myself. Now my KH rarely allows me to be uncaged, and that is the way we both like it.
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I have not attempted it. Are the orgasms inside the cage significantly less satisfying? I have heard all sorts of descriptions but am curious to know the experiences of those here.
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sirmebane wrote:...Are the orgasms inside the cage significantly less satisfying?
Definitely, for me. Mrs. Twisted has occasionally used her tongue to do it, and since I'm a 'grower' the ring is so tight that the urethra is blocked. It may go retrograde, or only a little oozes out until the swelling subsides. It tends to be somewhat frustrating.
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About 3 years ago I had an orgasm inside the cage. It was sufficiently unpleasant that I have never attempted to repeat the experience.
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It's up there in the ruined classification for me. You get off but then it's the "what did I do that for". :roll:
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