A week' worth of chastity
Posted: Sat Oct 22, 2016 8:30 am
I've been posting a long time here as "tcs". Just switched logins.
I can't believe it has been 6+ months since we played with chastity. Over the last week, it has given us a pretty good jolt. I am on Day 6 of the Jailbird. I took it off this morning briefly to make sure everything is ok. It seems like we get going on this after trips together. Also, she had her monthly this week so it was a good week to play.
The best part this time is my wife, J, seems into it. She told me to wear it on Sunday. I felt a little buzzed through out the workweek. I had a hard time focusing at work. On the flip side, I have a hard time getting up in the morning, but the JB tends to jolt me up in the early hours. So I got an earlier start to my day.
Yesterday was the hottest. We role played over text a little and managed to have lunch together. We fooled around a lot last night but the JB stayed on. "One more day" she said. That was hardest part.
I had more trouble with "ballburn" his morning. And that is when I took the cage off.
She told me I am a lot more attentive and patient with it on, and told me to put it back on. I'm 50/50 on whether this will last the weekend. She grabbed my cage a lot more during fooling around last night which is unusual. She is usually more ambivalent. I could barely feel her finger tips pressing through the cage. I had to slow down a few times.
We've been together for almost 20 years and have a fair amount of experience with all kinds of kink. With life getting in the way, this was the most we've played with anything D/s since spring. Still, it feels new again.
So, it's Saturday morning and a few things are on my mind:
How long will she want to keep this up? Usually she finds this tedious by now and the ride is over. I intentionally tried not to pester her with the details of my circumstances this week. Instead, I tried to focus on other things that might turn her on.
Should I try to jog with it on? I've done this once or twice and been ok.
Will I be able to concentrate if I keep this up?
IF the play continues, how can I organize myself so we have passion when we are together, but I am not totally obsessed and cannot do anything else? I am bad at this.
I can't believe it has been 6+ months since we played with chastity. Over the last week, it has given us a pretty good jolt. I am on Day 6 of the Jailbird. I took it off this morning briefly to make sure everything is ok. It seems like we get going on this after trips together. Also, she had her monthly this week so it was a good week to play.
The best part this time is my wife, J, seems into it. She told me to wear it on Sunday. I felt a little buzzed through out the workweek. I had a hard time focusing at work. On the flip side, I have a hard time getting up in the morning, but the JB tends to jolt me up in the early hours. So I got an earlier start to my day.
Yesterday was the hottest. We role played over text a little and managed to have lunch together. We fooled around a lot last night but the JB stayed on. "One more day" she said. That was hardest part.
I had more trouble with "ballburn" his morning. And that is when I took the cage off.
She told me I am a lot more attentive and patient with it on, and told me to put it back on. I'm 50/50 on whether this will last the weekend. She grabbed my cage a lot more during fooling around last night which is unusual. She is usually more ambivalent. I could barely feel her finger tips pressing through the cage. I had to slow down a few times.
We've been together for almost 20 years and have a fair amount of experience with all kinds of kink. With life getting in the way, this was the most we've played with anything D/s since spring. Still, it feels new again.
So, it's Saturday morning and a few things are on my mind:
How long will she want to keep this up? Usually she finds this tedious by now and the ride is over. I intentionally tried not to pester her with the details of my circumstances this week. Instead, I tried to focus on other things that might turn her on.
Should I try to jog with it on? I've done this once or twice and been ok.
Will I be able to concentrate if I keep this up?
IF the play continues, how can I organize myself so we have passion when we are together, but I am not totally obsessed and cannot do anything else? I am bad at this.