I have gone three months a couple of times without an orgasm though I have fucked my wife during those three months. At other times I have been quite often two months without an orgasm.
My dream is never to have an orgasm again in my whole life though I would penetrate my wife, bring her to orgasm--but never allow myself to have an orgasm, not even a ruined orgasm.
And... I do all of this WITHOUT being locked up.
Oh, and by the way, yes, I do masturbate a lot, but never to completion, i.e. never to the point where I have an orgasm. Never.
Living the real life under lock and key
like braddog I am kept locked during the week and unlocked on Friday when she gets home from work. I am usually put back in on sunday nights. if she is not going to be around for a long portion of the weekend or whole weekend I am locked up.