Poll: Want longer or shorter denial periods

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Poll: Want longer or shorter denial periods

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I've been locked up for a bit over 6 months (with occasional times out to orgasm). And my wife 2 days ago announced that my next time to orgasm is in a year. And she's serious.

I'm all over the place emotionally about that. Sometimes it's an incredible turn on. And sometimes it's OMFG how can I last that long.
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You need at least two more options. i want Her to make me wait for a year and i want Her to never let me cum again.

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attentive_husband wrote:I've been locked up for a bit over 6 months (with occasional times out to orgasm). And my wife 2 days ago announced that my next time to orgasm is in a year. And she's serious.

I'm all over the place emotionally about that. Sometimes it's an incredible turn on. And sometimes it's OMFG how can I last that long.
saw that in your journey. wow / curious how it goes. i am sure you two will have a lot of fun.
slave d wrote:You need at least two more options. i want Her to make me wait for a year and i want Her to never let me cum again.

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added those two options and also allowed 2 votes per person if necessary.
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Ups, this triggered a poll reset :(
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I am certainly ready for longer lock up periods and I think my keyholder/other half is ready to take that step.

This week sees a significant change in our relationship as a ring goes on her finger and after a few days the lock will go on for an expected period of denial until Christmas.
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2ndplace wrote:This week sees a significant change in our relationship as a ring goes on her finger
congratulations 2ndplace!!!
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The way my KH and I do it now is varying times between orgasms. So far it has been anywhere between 2 weeks and 4 months. This kind of keeps me on my toes, keeps me submissive. I am always thinking that if I am a good boy, I will be allowed to have an orgasm. When we did a set amount of time between orgasms, I would get lax knowing that I have so long before my next orgasm.
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I have never been that into the "duration" part of denial periods - what turns me on more is the inequality of the climaxes in our house, and not knowing when I will get to come. That is, my wife climaxes about 3 times more often than I do. It's a given that when we play, she is going to come, but I don't take it for granted that I will. It's up to her. When we first started with male orgasm denial, it was more about how many times she needed to come before I could - and it drove me batty when she "changed her mind".

So, I answered that I wanted more orgasms, because life just gets in the way. I definitely enjoy her deciding on it, but it's weird, I always DO want an orgasm. I feel like I "need" one every two weeks or so, otherwise I get too horny for my own good.
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