Why do you want this?

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Bird in a Cage
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Re: Why do you want this?

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WifeIsVanilla wrote:35 years ago, I took a course called business writing. The main takeaway from the course was SHORT PARAGRAPHS!!! Break paragraphs up whenever there is the slightest reason to.
A recent shift in my job duties has me interfacing a lot more with legal. They really are great people, but they share a collection of idiosyncrasies, especially in written communications. They don't believe in using periods. It's almost as if they're anti-punctuationists. The only reason for a period is to end a paragraph. A 500 word sentence/paragraph what contains a minimum of twenty commas.

I'm using this experience as a mechanism to practice patience.
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braddogg4345
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sirmebane wrote:Having some good conversations with the wife and her constant question is "Why?"

I have answered her the best that I know how and as honestly as I think I can but my answers all tend to be around the edge of an idea. Explaining why something turns you on is usually followed by "because it does." The answer is unfulfilling for the one asking the question and I want to help her understand.

I have explained the benefits of chastity as I understand them but I struggle with a direct answer to a question like that.

What have you told your wives/SO/KH when you first explained this to her? I'd love to have some better answer.
My wife was hesitant as well, but i tried not to pressure her, and i told her that it is a win-win for her. Sexual pleasure wherever and whenever she wants, not having to do chores around the house, back rubs or foot rubs whenever she wanted, and the list goes on. And all for little to no effort from her. I offered it to her on a trial basis, she agreed. Now 6 months later, she loves it!
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I suggested chastity as part of our emerging FLR and increasing her level of control, little did I know she would take to it like a fish to water, tried a few CB's and a Chinese knock-off, once we decided to go with a custom Mature Metal JB - it was all set and done... "She asked if the JB was comfortable for every day use"... I said yes I could get used to it... "Good then you will remain locked, and chastity will become part of our lifestyle..." That was the end of that...
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Re: Why do you want this?

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Caged55 wrote:I suggested chastity as part of our emerging FLR and increasing her level of control, little did I know she would take to it like a fish to water, tried a few CB's and a Chinese knock-off, once we decided to go with a custom Mature Metal JB - it was all set and done... "She asked if the JB was comfortable for every day use"... I said yes I could get used to it... "Good then you will remain locked, and chastity will become part of our lifestyle..." That was the end of that...
That could easily double as a post in the "Hot things your KH has said" thread.
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Jasmic68
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The reason we started is actually irrelevant, the reason we are continuing is much more important.

My Wife gets a huge amount of pleasure from the level of response she gets from me when she teases me. She knows that I am utterly obsessed with her, that she turns me on in every way possible until I am a complete mess. She has a lot of fun. She is much more relaxed than ever before and now gets at least double the amount of orgasms than she did prior to starting my chastity.

All she has to do is deny me for more than about three weeks and I am under her spell.

I am currently 2 months and a week since my last orgasm and she is my everything.
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Postby Shepherdsflock » Thu Apr 28, 2016 5:14 am
I didn't get into this because I had a kink for it. I got okinto it because I really wanted to stop masturbating.
Same here, I wanted to change my behaviour and there was a chance that my behaviour and aggressiveness had to do with the chronic PMO (Porn Masturbation Orgasm). My behaviour towards my wife changed with limiting the PMO and by reading this forum more I asked my wife to deny me more and more.

She saw the results before I talked to her and before I bought the device as I already had stopped Masturbation a few days earlier however I told her I needed her help and cannot do it alone. It was a very emotional talk. My wife went along but thought it will just be temporary as I will not follow through. She is a very happy wife now and really enjoys the new lifestyle.
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