current FLR type blogs/sites written by actual women?

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Howdy,

Things have been quiet between us at home as far as our "chastity lite" play and kink in general due to several factors-I'm back on my traveling job, remodeling projects at home, selling her business, kids, life...
Anyhow, things are good between us, just slow in the interesting intimacy department. It came up in conversation this morning, and my honey has expressed interest in re-starting some of our play, as well as trying new things.

She is soon to be out of work, and is going to be focusing on home matters for a good while before working again. This seemed like a good opportunity to put her in charge of my orgasms again,as well as me in general, since she will already be making most household decisions. FLR came up after the chastity lite discussion, and she's interested to a point. She asked for resources to learn more about things before we do things. I'm excited for the interest!

So, I'm looking around for FLR resources. I'm sure you know what I'm finding. It seems that most things I come across are totally written by men posing as women to promote their version of a fantasy. Sort of the chastity mansion stuff of the FLR world. Not interested. My honey wants to learn, and I want to give her good material.

Have any of you got any good suggestions? I found conquerhim.com, and it seems legit for the most part. Anything else?

Thank you!
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Here's a couple for you to check.

Georgia Ivey Green; http://mistressivey.blogspot.com/?zx=4b4b278289e6a368

Our own members, Lady M & Caged Monkey; http://monkeyinacage.fetblogger.com/?
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I set up a blog aggregate for some FLR sites:

http://sheheld.blogspot.com

Some of the blogs are written by women, and the content ranges from mild to BDSMish, but there are also some good resources on the sidebars.

There is some overlap with the Keyheld blog list, but She-Held is meant to be a separate list.
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Locked by LRC wrote:Our own members, Lady M & Caged Monkey; http://monkeyinacage.fetblogger.com/?
Thanks!

I was going to say I'm real and ACTUALLY a woman who didn't buy the rights to a model's pics, go figure! :)
Honestly, you're wife is welcome to contact me any time and please don't think I'd go all hardcore on her lol one of the things I love so much is supporting and encouraging other wives/keyholders. I help them understand they are in control, you crave the control and even help understand why. I thoroughly enjoy supporting a woman in her journey to become all she wants, to help her discover what she enjoys.

That part, helping wives and couples succeed in what they want is so rewarding! :)

Ok shutting up now!
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Thanks, everybody!

I wrote the original late last night, and forgot some things. I've just gotten tired of finding porny stuff when we want actual good resources.

Lady M, I personally enjoyed reading through about half of your blog last summer. It's quite interesting. I appreciate your offer, and when she's ready to talk or join as a KH, I'll be sure to point her in your direction.

Tom and Locked, thank you for the links. I'll check them out tonight.

Really just looking for real life application of the woman of the house being the one in charge, in whatever way it works for whoever it is. The stuff about "first you must do this, then do that to be correct and true in an FLR/chastity agreement" is getting old. Nothing works for everyone. We will find our own way through what works for us. She wants to read about other normal couples who are into somewhat kinky things. That's all. That's why I like a lot of the member's chastity blogs. I guess we are looking for similar stuff that isn't necessarily focused on chastity and T&D. Just getting a bigger picture.

Thanks again for the suggestions.
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Tom, that's quite an aggregate! Thank you.
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You are right. Most female blogs are men. I have been involved in sex BBS's and forums since before the internet was born. I ran a sex BBS that people connected to using 300 Baud modems. Then when the internet started I had a chat room board going. I even posed as several women for several years just to draw guys to my site since no other women were visiting. No harm done, just some masturbation fodder for the guys.

Some guys are better than others but for most, what they write sounds like a man's view of the topic they are talking about. I especially like the ones that pose as both husband and wife. The problem is regular women do not talk like what we read on those websites, at least none that I would even want anything to do with. :)

Always remember that more post about doing things than actually do them on the internet. I have been involved in marketing businesses and products on the web even before it became graphical. I ran a few eCommerce sites and took a few college courses and industry certified courses. It is kind of interesting because you need to understand people's online behavior and how it is affected by anonymity.
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I know you're right about all that. It's quite obvious most of the time. It's just a pain in the ass when you want to learn more and not just rub one out...
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Keephimcaged.tumblr.com and healthysexymarriage.Tumblr.com are the two my wife reads most, pretty FLR lite, which is how we are, but very good.
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It is kind of interesting because you need to understand people's online behavior and how it is affected by anonymity.
Oh, the irony.
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