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locked4her55 wrote:

Yorkyontour wrote:How many people around you know about your chastity?

We keep it to ourselves and of course the 3,347 of you.

Snap!

Wife, Mr and MrsB, and the couple the "D"... Mentioned in the hot tub post... Actually I feel good about it, when we mingle with the other couples who "know" it no big deal and I'm proud to be locked and under the control of my Madam KH... Describing our lifestyle is no big deal to those who seem to understand BUT that said I do believe it could be problematic to those that have little reality on a FLR (albeit many men live in a FLR wether they admit it or not), and chastity... IMHO

My girlfriend and I've told some female friends. Never told my male friends. But nobody knows the extent of it except my gf. And even she doesn't know about my tumblr or the full extent of my fantasies.

My fiance knows that I'm not shy and and knows that I talk about it with some of my friends but the only person she has shared it with was her mom. She told her mom that most guys should be locked up and that she should lock up her husband. She told her that most relationships would benefit from it.

I had another submissive male friend that knew that I was locked and/or denied occasionally. We had a few beers together, and he was actually a bit jealous of the caging, although his wife actively denied him as well.

I had fantasized quite a bit about my wife telling a close friend our little secret, but she didn't have that many close female friends that she would be comfortable sharing this aspect of our lives. Still, I always thought it would be hot if she said in general terms, "well, we started playing with sex being all about me, and I decide when hubby gets to come... and it's been a lot of fun - you should try it".

Shoe Slave88 wrote:My fiance knows that I'm not shy and and knows that I talk about it with some of my friends but the only person she has shared it with was her mom. She told her mom that most guys should be locked up and that she should lock up her husband. She told her that most relationships would benefit from it.

wow, very interesting. Did the mom act on it and try to lock up her partner?

Funny thing happened...

I recently had my annual physical, and despite my insistence that everything was working fine, the Doc was not dissuaded from doing a prostate check. She shooed Mrs. Twisted and the aide from the room. As I was bent over she asked, "So, no problems with sex?" I said "Only with scheduling."

The Doc said something about "Surely it can't be that difficult to find ten minutes to..." and my response was "If you think it only takes ten minutes, you're missing out."

"But,I've got two babies..."

"How many babies you have is completely irrelevant." (Despite all their education, sometimes docs aren't too bright.)

OK, so it was mildly amusing/interesting to be discussing sex with a lady Doc while she had her finger up my butt (which never would have happened a few years ago), the funniest part came after- Mrs. Twisted and I got in the car to leave, and all of a sudden she turned to me, her eyes wide "Oh, no! I forgot all about unlocking you...did she see...?"

I let her sit there in shock for about a half a minute before I said "You forgot about unlocking me for my colonoscopy a few months ago too, so I finally hunted down the spare key and took it off myself, since you haven't been paying any attention." (In her defense, she has been rather busy, with a demanding job *and* going to night school to finish her degree, which she got last month- summa cum laude, at the head of the procession and the first to be called up.)

So, while no one actually found out, for a brief bit Mrs. Twisted *thought* someone had...though she didn't appear quite as freaked out as I thought she would be.

locked4her55 wrote:

Yorkyontour wrote:How many people around you know about your chastity?

We keep it to ourselves and of course the 3,347 of you.

As it should be my dear!

just my wife but I have become less and less worried about who knows. I was paranoid going to school and or the gym locked but now its like second nature. I don't throw it in peoples faces obviously but I don't worry about it being seen through my shorts either if that makes sense.