What is the best part of chastity for you?

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Lockedwithlove
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What is the best part of chastity for you?

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For me it makes me feel like a teenager again and It makes me feel that kind of nervous butterflies you get when you first start dating someone you really like. I have that feeling all the time now when I think of my mistress.
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Jasmic68
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There is no simple, single answer to this for me.

Wearing a device, which isn't strictly what you asked but part of the method, means I don't have to see my penis and more significantly the modification I made to my glans that upset my Wife so much. It also means I don't feel worried that she can see it, so it allows me to relax.

It allows my Wife to relax and not feel pressured into having sex. This has had the effect of actually giving her more of a sexual appetite.

It has taught me that if I delay my orgasms for three or more weeks two things happen. My physical reactions when my Wife is intimate with me are much more strong than before. My orgasms are so much more powerful than they were if I only waited a few days, one I had close to a six week period of denial had me sobbing as the emotions were so intense.

As for the mental aspect I am calmer, much quicker to admit I am wrong and apologise when I have upset my Wife, almost totally cured of the need to masturbate and much more focused on the needs of my Wife.

Which is my favorite? What is the best part? It all is, the whole package.
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My MM Jail Bird feels so good, like constant low level foreplay and arousal . . . and that, as was mentioned above, is a feeling I have not experienced since my teens and early twenties. I am fully addicted to it.
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Re: What is the best part of chastity for you?

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Jasmic68 wrote:There is no simple, single answer to this for me.

Wearing a device, which isn't strictly what you asked but part of the method, means I don't have to see my penis and more significantly the modification I made to my glans that upset my Wife so much. It also means I don't feel worried that she can see it, so it allows me to relax.

It allows my Wife to relax and not feel pressured into having sex. This has had the effect of actually giving her more of a sexual appetite.

It has taught me that if I delay my orgasms for three or more weeks two things happen. My physical reactions when my Wife is intimate with me are much more strong than before. My orgasms are so much more powerful than they were if I only waited a few days, one I had close to a six week period of denial had me sobbing as the emotions were so intense.

As for the mental aspect I am calmer, much quicker to admit I am wrong and apologise when I have upset my Wife, almost totally cured of the need to masturbate and much more focused on the needs of my Wife.

Which is my favorite? What is the best part? It all is, the whole package.
Lol too true, I left the question to simple, I agree there is really no one answer to this for any of us so please feel free to elaborate. I'd love to read multiple responses on this.
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The constant emotional high and desire that it has created . Also seeing that glow my wife has as I definitely am a better person without the orgasm . Far less argumentative and much more willing to fulfill her desires .
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LOCKED HUSBAND wrote:The constant emotional high and desire that it has created . Also seeing that glow my wife has as I definitely am a better person without the orgasm . Far less argumentative and much more willing to fulfill her desires .
Ditto.... So far I have been orgasm-free for over 60 days, although I am incredibly horny and even desperate to please my KH, I am loving the constant state of desire, as she is loving the constant state of being the focus of my attention, and her having control over my sexuality!!
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When i'm locked in chastity there is that constant reminder that she is in control, and that keeps her front and center in my thoughts and results in me being far more thoughtful and attentive than my usual selfish self.
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The teasing and denial. My wife loves to "torture" me. My moans of sexual frustration make her very wet and horny. Today was special. She edged me manually and then had me perform oral on her which is rare. Usually she uses her vibrator but she was extremely horny. I tried to make the oral last because she will have an orgasm in a minute or two but she would have none of that. She grabbed my hair and pulled me into her and left me no choice but to lick where she wanted me to. It was over very fast; perhaps a minute and a half. Then she edged me orally which is even rarer than letting me perform oral. She did not even bring her vibrator to bed with her. The longer I go without an orgasm, the hornier she gets.

I enjoy the edging and knowing that I do not have to get erect and ejaculate every time. I used to get performance anxiety. Even with my generic Viagra (150 pills left) I usually have difficulty in getting erect or staying that way. Today I got hard just waiting for my wife to enter the bedroom and stayed hard until a few minutes after she left the room to shower. I do not know what got into us today but we were both super horny. We have not been like this for the last few years so chastity is helping us regain our intimacy and great sex that we are used to having.
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The best part for me is that my wife actually enjoys sex now.
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I agree with almost everything that has been said already so I won't repeat that. I know that not everyone here is into FLR, but I am, and for me, being locked is an important aspect of that dynamic. I love the symbolism of it. When my Wife clicks the lock shut and takes the keys (ALL of the keys! - I have no access to them whatsoever) I have an enormous surge of emotion as this is, to me a least, deeply symbolic of my submission to Her and Her authority over me.
Every time I put my hand down, and feel hard steel instead of soft flesh, I am reminded of this. Every time I catch a glimpse of myself in a mirror, and see my cock locked in steel, I am reminded of this. Every time I feel my cock straining against the bars, when I have a nocturnal erection or when I am going down on Her, I am reminded of this. And do you know what - I love it!
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