How and why did you get into male chastity?

[braddogg4345]

When most men think about having their penis locked in a cage and not being able to masturbate or have sex, they would say no thanks. So why do we say yes please!? I think it would be interesting to find out how and why we got started with male chastity.

For me, my wife and i were having some problems sexually. To make a long story short, i have this certain kink/fetish that my wife was not comfortable performing it for me. It caused a lot of fights between us. It even got to the point where i would go out and pay other women to perform this particular fetish for me. My wife never knew about that.
Anyway, we needed something to spice up our love life, because neither of us were happy with it. So we both agreed to give male chastity a try, i guess you could say it was a compromise on both our parts. We have been doing it for about 6 months now, and both of us are very happy with it. Both our sex lives, and our personal lives are better. She loves the fact that i am obediant (for the most part). And that i handle most of the household chores. For me, my wife of 9+ years has become the object of ALL my sexual desire. I often times refer to her as my goddess, and i long for any chance she gives me for any type if sexual contact.
After only 6 months of chastity play, i cant believe that there are people out their that AREN'T practicing male chastity.

[VinnyDee]

Old age, ED, wife with low libido but enjoys teasing and denial. Instead of maturbating until my wife was in the mood for sex, I am now locked up and love the energy of being constantly aroused. My wife enjoys the moans I make when she teases me, they turn her on.

We have always had a few fetishes that we played with but when we got old, we could not do them anymore and chastity does not involve more than locking up your penis.

[locked4her55]

Plain and simple. I would be horny, she would not be interested. It just became easier to take care of myself. Then, when she did want PIV, I was usually spent. In my younger days I could get up for the occasion but in my mid 50's it was tough. It became embarrassing in the bedroom when I couldn't perform.

I introduced chastity and came clean as to what was going on without her knowledge. Now she keeps me from myself and I'm able to satisfy her when she desires. I've also become a more sexually charged husband and attentive to her needs which she loves.

[Jasmic68]

I screwed up and needed to do something to show my Wife that I was committed fully to our relationship, to her. I had asked for permission to modify my glans by splitting it in two and she had agreed, but I had not heard how hesitant she was about the idea. When I had almost finished she absolutely hated what I had done and could not cope with seeing it.

I spent three days in England waiting for a phone call from my Wife in Germany telling me that she did not want me back, that she wanted a divorce. On the morning of the third day I woke up with the idea of offering her the idea of me wearing a chastity device with her holding the key, controlling my access to my penis. It would mean no more access to allow further modification and limit how much of the modification was visible.

I am the luckiest man alive because my Wife said yes. Not only did she say yes she then made this absolutely the way we live, made the transition to my chastity about her. The reason we continue is not the same as the reason we started. I regret the fact that I ever had the desire to modify my glans, what I have done will never fully heal, but I do not regret the fact that it led to me wearing a chastity device. In just four and a half months my Wife and I have become closer than we had been for years.

[Locksmith]

My hubby and I were scrolling thru his tumblr feed playing our "would you" game. (For every pic that comes up we say either we would or we wouldn't do the activity and/or the person in the pic). Anyway a random chastity pic came up (at that time he didn't follow any chastity blogs) and we both said "we would"

A couple of days later he came home with his first cage .... handed me the cage .... and it's been 24/7 since.

[warwick]

for me it was a problem of playing with myself. one night after she was asleep I was on the computer looking at some porn, she came down to get a bottle of water (it is in the garage and door is right next to computer) I turned and she was staring at me and asked what was I doing. kind of half mad and half laughing, very embarrassing to me. it was a few months after that I told her about getting a chastity device which she agreed with me. so here we are.

[braddogg4345]

Masturbating was kind of a problem i had too. With our busy lives, we dont have much time for sex. So i would masturbate pretty much any chance i got. A lot of times she would be ready to go, and i wouldnt be because i had just jerked off earlier that day. Now that i am in chastity, we dont have that problem.

[ChasteDr]

One night my wife asked me to show her some of the things I've been fantasizing about lately so I pulled up some Tumblr pages around Fem Dom. As she was scrolling through she came across an image of a guy locked in a chastity cage. She had never seen such a device but it really piqued her interest! Several weeks later I ordered a cheap device and handed her the keys. We've been exploring on and off over the past few months.

[jasmine]

Because i am a very submissive sissy maid slave to my SUPERIOR WIFE.
i have a very small package and it seemed to get smaller after circumcision.
It has been years that i am caged so i believe that the cage has made
my penis smaller by continued confinement, the sponge material in
the penis has changed.
i can not consider myself a real male any more
thank you