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Re: ... for some value of "vanilla."

Posted: Mon Aug 20, 2018 10:08 am
by easy going
Bird in a Cage wrote: ↑Tue Mar 01, 2016 7:06 pm There is also a sense of respect and compassion to fellow members and administrators on this site. I used to belong to a small number of blogs where just about every topic devolved into some form of viciousness. The authentic concern and respect shown on this site is a rarity in today's virtual landscapes.
I second that

Re: ... for some value of "vanilla."

Posted: Mon Aug 20, 2018 11:30 am
by jfenoffti
ditto.

Re: ... for some value of "vanilla."

Posted: Mon Aug 20, 2018 1:07 pm
by KittensBoyToy
Freaky_Dude wrote: ↑Tue Jun 06, 2017 10:48 pm I mentioned to my psychiatrist today that I'm now in a chastity device to keep me from 'taking care of myself' instead of focusing on my wife. He said Caging the phallus in long-term couples is "not uncommon." #TheMoreYouKnow
I have talked to mine about it briefly. Mainly on the direct affect it has had on my marriage and my relationship with my wife. She said it was great that we were taking steps to improve things!

Re: ... for some value of "vanilla."

Posted: Mon Aug 20, 2018 4:13 pm
by Tom Allen
KittensBoyToy wrote: ↑Mon Aug 20, 2018 1:07 pm
Freaky_Dude wrote: ↑Tue Jun 06, 2017 10:48 pm I mentioned to my psychiatrist today that I'm now in a chastity device to keep me from 'taking care of myself' instead of focusing on my wife. He said Caging the phallus in long-term couples is "not uncommon." #TheMoreYouKnow
I have talked to mine about it briefly. Mainly on the direct affect it has had on my marriage and my relationship with my wife. She said it was great that we were taking steps to improve things!
Many years ago, Mrs Edge and I went for couples counseling. The counselor seemed very uneducated about BDSM and kink, and I spent several embarrassing one on one sessions having to explain a lot of things to him - and even at that, I don't think he understood the concept. :roll:

Re: ... for some value of "vanilla."

Posted: Tue Aug 21, 2018 4:29 am
by easy going
That almost sounds like my wife! Lol, but she's getting thereπŸ˜‰

Re: ... for some value of "vanilla."

Posted: Thu Aug 23, 2018 2:43 pm
by cycling2work
Freaky_Dude wrote: ↑Tue Jun 06, 2017 10:48 pm I mentioned to my psychiatrist today that I'm now in a chastity device to keep me from 'taking care of myself' instead of focusing on my wife. He said Caging the phallus in long-term couples is "not uncommon." #TheMoreYouKnow
Reading this was worth coming back to CF today.
Congrats Tom and all the others for updating the forum!!!

Re: ... for some value of "vanilla."

Posted: Thu Aug 30, 2018 8:19 pm
by Joroincharge
cycling2work wrote: ↑Thu Aug 23, 2018 2:43 pm
Freaky_Dude wrote: ↑Tue Jun 06, 2017 10:48 pm I mentioned to my psychiatrist today that I'm now in a chastity device to keep me from 'taking care of myself' instead of focusing on my wife. He said Caging the phallus in long-term couples is "not uncommon." #TheMoreYouKnow
Reading this was worth coming back to CF today.
Congrats Tom and all the others for updating the forum!!!

Always suspected but good to know even so! :D :D :D

Re: ... for some value of "vanilla."

Posted: Sat Nov 24, 2018 8:58 pm
by Freaky_Dude
FYI - still locked in my β€œsecond wedding ring.” My wife has the key in her purse. Every 2 months or so, I get a some kind of relief/release.
Our marriage is great. πŸ˜‰

Re: ... for some value of "vanilla."

Posted: Sun Sep 08, 2019 5:30 pm
by sirmebane
Freaky_Dude wrote: ↑Tue Jun 06, 2017 10:48 pm I mentioned to my psychiatrist today that I'm now in a chastity device to keep me from 'taking care of myself' instead of focusing on my wife. He said Caging the phallus in long-term couples is "not uncommon." #TheMoreYouKnow
Wait? What!

Any more details in that conversation? Clinical articles? How "not uncommon" are we talking here? I've never heard of professional who owned up to knowing about chastity. Bondage, fetish, whatever else... yes. Never chastity.

Re: ... for some value of "vanilla."

Posted: Sat Sep 14, 2019 8:05 pm
by Chastityat60
I would like to post a thank you also, but I'm blocked..