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Re: ... for some value of "vanilla."

Post by easy going » Mon Aug 20, 2018 10:08 am

Bird in a Cage wrote:
Tue Mar 01, 2016 7:06 pm
There is also a sense of respect and compassion to fellow members and administrators on this site. I used to belong to a small number of blogs where just about every topic devolved into some form of viciousness. The authentic concern and respect shown on this site is a rarity in today's virtual landscapes.
I second that
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Re: ... for some value of "vanilla."

Post by jfenoffti » Mon Aug 20, 2018 11:30 am

ditto.
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Re: ... for some value of "vanilla."

Post by KittensBoyToy » Mon Aug 20, 2018 1:07 pm

Freaky_Dude wrote:
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I mentioned to my psychiatrist today that I'm now in a chastity device to keep me from 'taking care of myself' instead of focusing on my wife. He said Caging the phallus in long-term couples is "not uncommon." #TheMoreYouKnow
I have talked to mine about it briefly. Mainly on the direct affect it has had on my marriage and my relationship with my wife. She said it was great that we were taking steps to improve things!
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Re: ... for some value of "vanilla."

Post by Tom Allen » Mon Aug 20, 2018 4:13 pm

KittensBoyToy wrote:
Mon Aug 20, 2018 1:07 pm
Freaky_Dude wrote:
Tue Jun 06, 2017 10:48 pm
I mentioned to my psychiatrist today that I'm now in a chastity device to keep me from 'taking care of myself' instead of focusing on my wife. He said Caging the phallus in long-term couples is "not uncommon." #TheMoreYouKnow
I have talked to mine about it briefly. Mainly on the direct affect it has had on my marriage and my relationship with my wife. She said it was great that we were taking steps to improve things!
Many years ago, Mrs Edge and I went for couples counseling. The counselor seemed very uneducated about BDSM and kink, and I spent several embarrassing one on one sessions having to explain a lot of things to him - and even at that, I don't think he understood the concept. :roll:
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Re: ... for some value of "vanilla."

Post by easy going » Tue Aug 21, 2018 4:29 am

That almost sounds like my wife! Lol, but she's getting there😉
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Re: ... for some value of "vanilla."

Post by cycling2work » Thu Aug 23, 2018 2:43 pm

Freaky_Dude wrote:
Tue Jun 06, 2017 10:48 pm
I mentioned to my psychiatrist today that I'm now in a chastity device to keep me from 'taking care of myself' instead of focusing on my wife. He said Caging the phallus in long-term couples is "not uncommon." #TheMoreYouKnow
Reading this was worth coming back to CF today.
Congrats Tom and all the others for updating the forum!!!
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Re: ... for some value of "vanilla."

Post by Joroincharge » Thu Aug 30, 2018 8:19 pm

cycling2work wrote:
Thu Aug 23, 2018 2:43 pm
Freaky_Dude wrote:
Tue Jun 06, 2017 10:48 pm
I mentioned to my psychiatrist today that I'm now in a chastity device to keep me from 'taking care of myself' instead of focusing on my wife. He said Caging the phallus in long-term couples is "not uncommon." #TheMoreYouKnow
Reading this was worth coming back to CF today.
Congrats Tom and all the others for updating the forum!!!

Always suspected but good to know even so! :D :D :D
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Re: ... for some value of "vanilla."

Post by Freaky_Dude » Sat Nov 24, 2018 8:58 pm

FYI - still locked in my “second wedding ring.” My wife has the key in her purse. Every 2 months or so, I get a some kind of relief/release.
Our marriage is great. 😉
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