Who has gotten started in your 50s

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Who has gotten started in your 50s

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I am mid 50s and in the last several years our sex life has changed, we rarely fuck anymore. sex is mostly mutual masturbation or I give her oral. She doesnt like giving oral to completion so if I give her oral I am left out. I understand that before it starts and I have come to enjoy the denial. Also if I am masturbating her and dont come shortly after her her rubbing my cock trails off and leaves me hanging, I dont know why but I find I enjoy it a lot. Would really like to get in to her actively controlling my orgasm.

Over the last few months I have read about male chastity devices, came upon it purely by accident, At first I thought it was very strange. At first I said no way but slowly I opened up to the idea.

Now I want to try something like the cb6000.

Now to find a way to break it to my wife. I think she would be like I was at first and think it was a little strange.

Would love to hear from others who started in their 50s,
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As my name implies, we started this when I was 55.

Not so sure how I would have fared with this in my 30's :shock:
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I would say it was in my late 40s that my idea of an orgasm changed. I was able to recharge quickly so 3-4 in a night was possible, Now it takes me quite a while to recharge and I enjoy the tease and buildup even if denied an orgasm.
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We got started in our 40s.
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i was 61 and MsM was 59 when we started in chastity after our "normal" sex lives had dwindled to near zero. 18 months later we couldn't be happier and MsM is having at least a dozen orgasms a week !!!

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send a pm
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Yep over 50 for both of us did it... so much more fun
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GehorsamEr55 wrote:send a pm
Who should send a pm to whom ?????

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slave d wrote:
GehorsamEr55 wrote:send a pm
Who should send a pm to whom ?????

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Yeah, it seemed like a pretty straightforward question.
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59 & 59.
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