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Re: Have you ever had a chastity encounter with another coup

Posted: Mon Oct 26, 2015 1:56 pm
by CagedWestley
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Re: Have you ever had a chastity encounter with another coup

Posted: Mon Oct 26, 2015 3:13 pm
by nebman
Interesting poll and thread.

When I was dating my wife almost 25 years ago, she had several "sex sharing" encounters. A friend of hers had a sex toy bachelorette party (so we know -still know- a couple that is / was at least toy friendly) (she went), an older coworker gave her a set of Velcro bondage tie downs when we announced our engagement, her female boss (small family owned company, there was a personal relationship, she was older than us) threw a sex toy party (didn't attend), and a college friend wanted to arrange a panty exchange club among women friends (declined).

I've never thought about it, but our knowledge of friends and acquaintances in at least a sort of sexual way died off about 25 years ago. Hard to say why, being busy with two careers and our kids may be a cause. Maybe people aren't sharing quite like they did 25 years ago? We live in the same relatively conservative area of the country as we did then, so that hasn't changed.

But, with the apparent popularity of sex toys and the many cages available today, I have to believe that there are a pretty good number of cocks out there that have seen at least a little cage time.

I just don't happen to know any.

Seven people (so far) have answered in the affirmative, but only two have added a comment about that experience. It would be interesting to see comments from anybody answering a form of yes.

Re: Have you ever had a chastity encounter with another coup

Posted: Tue Oct 27, 2015 5:39 am
by jahardcourt
My wife chats to another wife online about it, she's found it hugely helpful and despite being very cautious to begin with they now talk all about it and swap ideas. That level of openness but anonymity is really good, as I'd be pretty unhappy with her talking to her close friends about it as non of them are 'sex positive' enough to really get their heads around it.
I guess the same kind of thing happens in the Keyholder area here?

Re: Have you ever had a chastity encounter with another coup

Posted: Tue Oct 27, 2015 10:37 am
by Grizzly228
No and I'm not sure I'd want to. However she has told her sisters and cousin about our orgasm denial and teasing. Not sure about the cage. I have told a friend or two about it but nobody really close. Just more like TMI stories

Re: Have you ever had a chastity encounter with another coup

Posted: Thu Oct 29, 2015 5:49 pm
by knighterrant
Well, interesting results so far. It looks like to find a cage, for the most part you have to spot a key holder.

Re: Have you ever had a chastity encounter with another coup

Posted: Fri Oct 30, 2015 6:30 am
by TwistedMister
Never met anyone, IRL, face to face. I have fantasies in that area though, not unlike the story recently leading from a hot tub encounter...but mine tend to go a little further. Things could get interesting, I think, if Mrs. Twisted were to meet another KH and we got to know them.

Re: Have you ever had a chastity encounter with another coup

Posted: Fri Oct 30, 2015 2:15 pm
by carolina cyclist
I bought MrsL a nice key charm because she didn't want to wear the real key for obvious reasons. Recently at one of her sales/dealer events a lady approached her booth and while talking about products commented: "oh, I see you have a key charm as well". MrsL didn't pursue it but the lady pulled a similar style key charm on a chain from inside her shirt, looked at her, and winked/smiled.

That was the extent of the interaction. She keeps hinting that she wants to tell someone...but hasnt' decided who it will be. I am, now, just along for the ride!

Re: Have you ever had a chastity encounter with another coup

Posted: Fri Oct 30, 2015 2:19 pm
by Grizzly228
I would be interested in serving two women while not allowed to orgasm or while locked. But I feel that will stay a fantasy. Don't really want other guys to know especially male friends that I'd feel comfortable having a foursome or so with. Lol. That's the paradox. Anybody id feel comfortable enough with, I wouldn't want to. Same reason I don't want a threesome with another dude.

Re: Have you ever had a chastity encounter with another coup

Posted: Sat Oct 31, 2015 3:00 pm
by lockedsteve
I have tried a lot of fetishes over the last 50 years and alway met others into them either in my day to day life, swing clubs or BDSM clubs. I never met anyone into chastity though. Everyone seemed to be seeking more and better orgasms, not foregoing them. My wife would like to find another girlfriend so both of them could tease me and she will have someone who can orgasm with her.

No one around here talks about their sex life. We moved from very wild NYC to a ultra conservative rural area. What a big difference.

Re: Have you ever had a chastity encounter with another coup

Posted: Sat Oct 31, 2015 9:03 pm
by DLsKnight
lockedsteve wrote:I have tried a lot of fetishes over the last 50 years and alway met others into them either in my day to day life, swing clubs or BDSM clubs. I never met anyone into chastity though. Everyone seemed to be seeking more and better orgasms, not foregoing them. My wife would like to find another girlfriend so both of them could tease me and she will have someone who can orgasm with her.

No one around here talks about their sex life. We moved from very wild NYC to a ultra conservative rural area. What a big difference.
Maybe you need to meet your neighbors ;) We are from what I would call an ultra conservative rural area and talk of sex is common once you know the people. There are alot of FLR couples here. :D