Post Cialis punishment?

[nowimincharge]

Hi guys,

I posted the following message in the keyholders chat, but I am curious what a mans point of view might be, other than my husband of course!

"We have been using chastity device periodically since May. It has been great for our relationship in most every way. The only downside is he can't last long enough to give me an orgasm thru intercourse like he previously could. Yes we use toys, but my most intense orgasm has recently been with intercourse. One of our rules is no masturbation for him, with or without climax. Yesterday, we used cialis to help remedy that problem. This morning, he said he rubbed his cock "a little" while we were in bed. Over the past 5 months I have become comfortable punishing him when he breaks the rules, so that isn't the issue. I feel this is kind of a gray area. Yes, he enjoys the effects of the drug, but he took it for me. Do I punish him in this instance? As of right now, I have not punished him. Cialis typically lasts another 24 hours or so for him, so I told him if he touches his cock today that his ass is mine.
Thoughts?"

[Locked by LRC]

I would say in both of your minds you are using the Cialis as the excuse. Try looking at it a different way.

When he was able to achieve an erection before assistance, what would you have done? I think this is how it should be considered.

[TwistedMister]

I would say that the issue is not how he managed to come up with the erection (pun intended), but his self-control in keeping his hand(s) off it. If your rules call for the action to be penalized, then it should be done.

Of course, I *am* just a little 'twisted' and I find the idea of being punished for such an 'offense', even if the temptation to do it were to be *intentionally* created, to be erotic. (In other words, in *my* world, even if you gave him the Cialis and instructed him not to touch the resulting erection, knowing that he might not be able to resist the temptation and so provide you with an 'excuse' to assign a penalty while blaming it on *him*, it would be perfectly acceptable. )

[carolina cyclist]

We had a similar situation over the weekend. We don't use Cialis or the little blue pill...I have gone to a private men's clinic and got a customed designed ED injection. I did this last year due to some "performance" issues. The injections are awesome and usually outlast MrsL and I both.

I woke up an hour after falling asleep with a bit of an "injection hangover" (still had an erection). MrsL was sound asleep and I knew she needed some rest. What a predicament . I know the rule: I am not to touch myself or the consequences include a spanking of at least 20 swats and a minimum 30 days in the Steelheart. So, what did I do...I went to the bathroom and soaked a wash cloth in cold water and placed it over the erection. I could not do anything nor did I want to do anything. I have made a promise to MrsL. Even though most of the time I have steel reinforced assistance in keeping that promise, I will not take advantage of using the ED injection as an excuse for breaking that promise.

So, if a rule was broken, Cialis or not I think it should be punished.

[MrCage]

What? Are you all crazy? Those pills are expensive and you should get your monies worth! I say (as a constantly horny caged man), "whack it up dude! Don't waste the pill. You (KH)should/could take advantage of the 24 hrs of erectile value and use it, or you could reward the the nights pleasure with a supervised masturbation. Even if you stopped him before the O, it would be great. You would probably get excited watching him, then go for a ride. Good luck to the chaste man of nowimincharge.

[lockedsteve]

I have 150 generic Viagra pills. I am locked up 90% of the time and after a few weeks I cannot get erect so I take a Viagra and that solves the problem. Cialis lasts too long and not a good choice since I will be locked up again after sex. It is difficult enough to put up with 4 hour Viagra. I could not imagine being locked up while Cialis is still in my system. Ouch. Given your current situation, Viagra would be a better choice. I bought from India at about $1.27 a pill and they work just like the name brand one, blue tint and all. My local pharmacy wants $35 a pill.

[locked4her55]

I'm on board with TM. If I were to take Cialis, with or without my wife's permission and got caught masturbating, well let's just say 'there would be consequences'.