It's been awhile
Posted: Fri Sep 04, 2015 12:03 pm
Look's like we are back
For those of who have been around awhile, good to see you again! I seem some names I recognize still. For those of you who I don't, I will give you a little intro.
Jnuts and I began our chastity journey about 5 years ago. He has only worn one device, a jailbird. We started into chasisty as a way to increase communication and balance out of sex drives to some extent. We had just had 2 little girls born 11 months apart. I was a SAHM, and I am almost 10 years older than him. He introduced the idea to me and I figured what the hell. It really couldn't hurt. We both found the benefits, and ended up writing a blog for a couple of years. We also reviewed sex toys for several companies for a year or so. Believe it or not, that got old fast. His device didn't fit real well, and we got to the point where he hardly wore it. We basically functioned on the "honor system". He would ask permission to masturbate or cum. There was very little denial involved. This went on the last 2 years or so.
Fast forward to last week. The kids are both in school now, and this allows me to work on the business that I own during the day. My stress level is better. We have ordered a new device, and he is locked back in his jailbird until it comes. He has been in 6 days, and I have no idea when this cycle will end. We typically do a few weeks, but have gone as far as 4 months. I have found that I don't set dates for releases. It puts too much pressure on me and then I don't enjoy it, and he doesn't either.
Anyways, glad to be back!
For those of who have been around awhile, good to see you again! I seem some names I recognize still. For those of you who I don't, I will give you a little intro.
Jnuts and I began our chastity journey about 5 years ago. He has only worn one device, a jailbird. We started into chasisty as a way to increase communication and balance out of sex drives to some extent. We had just had 2 little girls born 11 months apart. I was a SAHM, and I am almost 10 years older than him. He introduced the idea to me and I figured what the hell. It really couldn't hurt. We both found the benefits, and ended up writing a blog for a couple of years. We also reviewed sex toys for several companies for a year or so. Believe it or not, that got old fast. His device didn't fit real well, and we got to the point where he hardly wore it. We basically functioned on the "honor system". He would ask permission to masturbate or cum. There was very little denial involved. This went on the last 2 years or so.
Fast forward to last week. The kids are both in school now, and this allows me to work on the business that I own during the day. My stress level is better. We have ordered a new device, and he is locked back in his jailbird until it comes. He has been in 6 days, and I have no idea when this cycle will end. We typically do a few weeks, but have gone as far as 4 months. I have found that I don't set dates for releases. It puts too much pressure on me and then I don't enjoy it, and he doesn't either.
Anyways, glad to be back!