Is It Ok For the Keyholder to Masturbate?

[McAndrew]

I'm fairly sure that all the girls I've known for any time, were open about masturbation.
Even one who was a member of a bizarre religion would masturbate with me, but not orgasm. (That had to wait until she was married.)

One of my wifes favorite things is for me to give her a back massage, while she masturbates. If I start to dribble pre-cum over her legs, she knows I'm enjoying it and being hugely frustrated.
Watching a girl totally lose it as she masturbates to orgasm is lovely.

A running joke in our house is that cutting toe nails is a thing that should be done discreetly in private. With masturbation you should at least offer the opportunity to watch.

[Caged55]

My KH has absolutely no problem masturbating or using a vibrator any time of the day, she prefers me watching (in chastity) while she satisfies herself - afterall its her absolute right as a dominant woman, and hightens the T&D especially during a long orgasm denial period.... my KH would not even dream of "restricting" herself from having an orgasm when she feels like one...

[katieandchaste]

Okay, you two - throttle it back, or I swear I'm going to turn this car around and we're going straight home. No trip to the mall, and no ice cream.

BUT DAD! He started it

Okay, I'll stop if he does. Can I still get some shoes and some ice cream?

[TwistedMister]

What? Nobody's getting a spanking?

[LadyDs_alex]

I would think that of course it is ok for the Keyholder to pleasure herself! Why not? Maybe I'm jumping to too many conclusions, but it seems to me that male chastity is by its very nature a Female dominant/male submissive activity. Even if you don't do any other S&M stuff. And a Female dominant should have the right to enjoy Herself sexually, and expect Her male submissive to be cooperative (within reason of course, and if you like to play rough there should of course be a safeword).

For me however this doesn't apply for a very simple reason; LadyD doesn't masturbate. Seriously, she just doesn't. She is not repressed, She has a very healthy sexual appetite. And she loves our vibrator. But only when I use it on Her.

One time I was doing just that; easing the humming vibe in and out of Her Lady part, and She was moaning in pleasure, when a little light bulb went on over my head, and I decided I was going to "cure" Her of her silly inhibition.

I took Her hand, placed it gently on the vibe, and said, "Honey you do it while I watch. That would be hot."

Instantly it was no fun for Her! She did it because I had said I would like it, but she wasn't enjoying it anymore. After about sixty seconds I realized that She really wasn't going to start enjoying it, and I was being a jerk. I took control of the vibe once again, and by way of apology also went down and got busy with my mouth. After a while She forgave me -- at least I assume that is what Her screams and moans meant!

I've talked to Her about this. She says she just never learned to masturbate, and isn't interested in trying. "It would make me feel lonely," is Her explanation, and She is not interested in further discussion. Arousal and orgasm are things that happen with the man She loves -- period.

Now me on the other hand, I love to jerk off! Pretty much any chance I get. And I'm pretty fond of pornography too. And this selfish habit was causing real strife in my marriage. One day it was time to grow the hell up and decide which I loved more -- my Wife, or the palm of my hand and pictures of women who were not my Wife on a computer screen.

The decision was made and now an order is in to Mature Metal. Three weeks and counting.
"The waaaaaaaaiting is the haaarrrdest part!"

[Tom Allen]

What? Nobody's getting a spanking?

After LadyM gets through unpacking, she'll probably be happy to give out a few of them.

[LockedandLoved]

That looks far too perilous Tom

[LadyDs_alex]

Imagine being trapped in the Castle Anthrax -- while inescapably locked up!

[TwistedMister]

Imagine being trapped in the Castle Anthrax -- while inescapably locked up!

"Ooh, a spanking! A spanking!"

I was thinking of just that scene at the time.

[locked4her55]

One of my (ready for prime time) spanking faves.

and yes, if she was my KH she could absolutely masturbate anytime she wants.