Who puts it on ?

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Who puts it on ?

Post by WET_MANGOS » Wed Aug 19, 2015 11:13 am

When it's time to put the cage on who does it ?
My cage should be here in days and I'm getting nervous. I told my keyholder I want her to be the one to put on and take off the device always, but I think this is kind of unrealistic.
So who does it ? Does your keyholder always do it, or does she just do it when it's tease and denial time. I'm thinking she will throw me the keys when it comes to utility.
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Re: Who puts it on ?

Post by Aarkey » Wed Aug 19, 2015 11:35 am

If you are new to the experience, I highly recommend that you do it til you are quite comfortable and used to wearing the device. Depending on several factors, getting it off and on isn't always super easy to do.
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Re: Who puts it on ?

Post by yeldarb » Wed Aug 19, 2015 12:12 pm

Yes, unfortunately it is a bit unrealistic really.

Quite apart from there sometimes being circumstances where having her do so is simply impractical and occasions when she just plain doesn't want to participate, simply because she's not in the mood (yes, it can happen!) there are physical issues.

I've been locked some five weeks now, most but not all days, evenings and nights, and while it is lovely to have her 'ministrate' there are times when we need to do it together due to issues of pinching/trapping of skin or hairs. I keep myself as shaved as I can, and Mrs Y has agreed to help me do so and spot stray or hard to seek and get at hairs etc., but there are always some it seems, and getting even a tiny bit of skin caught as she tries to close and lock the assembly does warrant some shared care.

I use the CB6000s and suspect that such issues may be less potentially "sharp" in other designs (?) but we always finish of with her putting the padlock through the pin and snapping it closed - an awesome moment :-)
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Re: Who puts it on ?

Post by WifeIsVanilla » Wed Aug 19, 2015 12:13 pm

Especially the first 20 times or so when you are so excited that staying flaccid enough to get it on is next to impossible. Having her try to put it on would make it COMPLETELY impossible. :D
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Re: Who puts it on ?

Post by 2ndplace » Wed Aug 19, 2015 12:22 pm

I always think that the task of putting the device on should be a job for the wearer and that the important issue is who clicks the lock - which is a job for the keyholder.

That is the way we usually do it.
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Re: Who puts it on ?

Post by locked4her55 » Wed Aug 19, 2015 2:04 pm

I always put it on. She is very concerned that she would hurt me and actually, depending on how tight my scrotum is at the time she probably would cause me some pain. As for closing the lock. . .she has made it very clear that it is her duty and only her duty.
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Re: Who puts it on ?

Post by poptart1200 » Wed Aug 19, 2015 3:14 pm

About the same here. My Rikers really only comes off every 3 or 4 days for a supervised shower, otherwise it's on 24/7 until release day. Sometimes she likes to remove it and I usually put it back on since she is afraid I might be pinched. But she ALWAYS removes and replaces the padlock, no exceptions. I am not allowed to touch the key. We both like to hear the 'click' when she closes the lock. It a ceremonial representation of her power over me.
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Re: Who puts it on ?

Post by yeldarb » Wed Aug 19, 2015 5:34 pm

poptart1200 wrote: We both like to hear the 'click' when she closes the lock. It a ceremonial representation of her power over me.
Yes - exactly; the click and removal of the key is the "special moment".
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Re: Who puts it on ?

Post by carolina cyclist » Wed Aug 19, 2015 6:33 pm

I put on the device and MrsL insists on putting on the lock or seal. She also insists on unlocking it herself. Now, there are times when I have to do it but those are few and far between. When I travel, we FaceTime when I change locks.
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Re: Who puts it on ?

Post by Lady M » Wed Aug 19, 2015 9:18 pm

Most of the time cagedmonkey puts his device on and puts the screw in - I tighten it with the key on my necklace if need be.

There are times that I remove or put his cage back on. I wouldn't dream of doing it in the beginning, there is a lot of learning to get it on. Two years later and I'm still nervous in going to hurt him - plus it takes me longer to get it on him. Not to mention him getting a bit chubby while I'm trying to do it.

Like I said, I can and do - especially during our No Look, No Touch times but it's easy and faster for him to do it. :)
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