Blue balls - does it ever get better?

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Dearstokes
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Blue balls - does it ever get better?

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So, I'm not super new to chastity, but my sex drive is higher than it has been in a long time as of late.
Lifting weights, more sleep, more sun (D-vitamine?) and zing/magnesium/b12 supplements if you wonder!

We have done it for a short week at a time now and then previously. When we started up again now I run into the blue balls wall kinda quickly. Like one-two days.
I really want to go for longer, but the pain is too much to be worth it as it is now. My SO pegged me yesterday, which made me discharge a bit and let up the pressure. Today it's starting to get bad again.

Does it ever get better? Does it go away?
I can't believe people enjoy blue balls in that kinky kind of way, it hurts so much :cry:
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I never experienced blue balls in my life. Always thought that it was something us guys told girls to get them to make us cum but from what I read, it is real for some men and can range from mild pain to feeling like you have been kicked in the balls. However, it should not last long per the article in the link below. I find that I feel better if I try not to have erections. I used to view a lot of porn when I was locked up and that had me getting erect and soft over and over again. I do not know if it was ball blues, because they never looked blue, but the pressure of the ring against my balls from the device being pulled away from my body, pressed the ring against my balls and made them sore. Also, at time my balls just seem to try to retract and press hard against the ring causing slight bruising from the pressure. That pain does not go away quickly. It is not blue balls in my case because that can happen at any time, even right after an orgasm.

http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/q- ... lue-balls/
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Try massaging them. Use varying amounts of pressure to find what works. It can greatly relieve the aching feeling, and you can do it multiple times throughout the day as needed.
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Hubby gets that dull aching balls feeling but usually the feeling subsides after a bit... If you are only doing a week at a time it certainly can last longer than that but for most, I think it does lessen and the feeling of being full replaces the ache.
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Blue balls suck. And the pain rises into my abdomen and interrupts my eating and enjoyment of all things. Usually it only lasts about 12 hours though. It only seems to occur after a long period of teasing with no release. Denial itself doesn't tend to give me blue balls. If you are big on weight lifting you may want to get checked for a hernia. And if it is just blue balls that's disrupting your "enjoyment" of orgasm denial you may want to work a ruined orgasm into your routine once In a while. Massage and rest and warm showers help me, and I've read anti pain meds can help
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On a lighter note,
No pain, no gain!
So learn to bear the pain and you will gain a lot!
All the best!

Frequently applying baby oil around the scrotum & base ring will help
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Grizzly228 wrote:Blue balls suck. And the pain rises into my abdomen and interrupts my eating and enjoyment of all things. Usually it only lasts about 12 hours though. It only seems to occur after a long period of teasing with no release. Denial itself doesn't tend to give me blue balls. If you are big on weight lifting you may want to get checked for a hernia. And if it is just blue balls that's disrupting your "enjoyment" of orgasm denial you may want to work a ruined orgasm into your routine once In a while. Massage and rest and warm showers help me, and I've read anti pain meds can help
I just got scared that it might be hernia. I came on saturday, but I still have a pain when I cough now.
If it lasts till tomorrow I'm gonna check with a doctor.

Anyways, you say it only lasts 12 hours? So you're teased once a day you're basically gonna go around all day with aching balls?
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I'm no doctor but from what I've read they could have similar symptoms. It just seems odd that you get blue balls so quickly. It usually takes me a good 3 days of HEAVY tease and denial to get them. Everyone's different though. I wouldn't worry but if it makes you feel better get it checked. I wouldn't mention the blue balls or anything. Just tell them about the pains and see what they say. Coughing and stuff doesn't really hurt mine. It's just a constant pain in my groin and abs similar to what I imagine menstrual cramps would feel like. I've read walking up steps or lifting something heavy can redirect the blood from the area and relieve them faster. Steps do seem to help a little, to Just be up and moving around.
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It maybe a weird kink, but I actually enjoy the frustration of blue balls. (With the only exception of having to be in a social environment or being busy with work projects). When it's play time, I find the frustration to be pleasurable.
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For me, I don't think 'enjoy' is quite the right word. But being somewhat masochistic, I find the idea of 'suffering' for my lady to be erotic.
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