UPDATE... the big reveal
Well, we did it... my wife "sensitized" our hostess before, who to our surprise was totally curious, and in turn briefed her husband, so when it came to taking my bathrobe off, all eyes where on my caged penis... Stage-fright?!... no actually I felt proud to be in chastity. Anyway, I got in the tub, and the conversation started around chastity, why, how, how long, changes, improvements to our marriage etc... we actually had a very open and long conversation about chastity, and its benefits... and the while, the wine flowed, as did the conversation, to a point where our hostess asked me to sit on the edge of the tub so she could "look" at the "cage" again..., glancing over to my wife and KH (she prefers to be referred to as my Madam), for an approving nod, I sat on the edge and my Madam spread my legs showing off my shiny Jailbird.
After a minute, our hostess asked my Madam, whether she could touch it (note she did not ask me!!!), ... sure she said, and a woman I had only ever seen dressed, and now naked before me, slid between my legs and inspected my caged cock... I knew getting aroused now would be fatal for me... and it took a huge amount of will power and thoughts of nuclear war and famine, not to become erect while she probed, fondled and touched my "metal"... which she found absolutely fascinating that I was wearing such a solid cage on my cock 24/7... she loved it, and especially the improvements it brought to our already good marriage.
She turned to her husband, who found the whole thing amusing, and said... I want you to try this, this is so sexy and look what it has done for them... he was less amused, but she insisted that I send over my sizing rings to him, and he agreed he would "think" about it, especially since he asked a lot of questions about comfort, wearability etc.
I/we were surprised how well the evening went. They are definitely vanilla with the most exiting thing they do is to do naked hot-tubs with their friends, and he had an short affair some years back. Whilst we openly discussed our journey, and changes we noted in our marriage, we did not delve into our journey towards FLR etc.
Madam was extremely proud, just as I had "sensed" or known, about not rising to another woman's touch and I was rewarded with mind-blowing sex on Sunday, and a supervised orgasm, my first in 10 days.
Overall it left me with a sense of pride, I was not embarrassed about our lifestyle which works for us extremely well. We have a absolutely great marriage, which we feel is getting better all the time, and I believe chastity is a wonderful mechanism or opportunity to keep that spark alive between two people, wether vanilla, or involved in a FLR or even a FemDom marriage.... hey, and maybe our friends will start their own journey into chastity
Interestingly it revealed (topic during our hot-tub) my wife believes that ALL men should be in chastity as soon as they become sexually active, and that initially mothers hold the key, which is then passed on to the wives or girlfriends... she said imagine a world of legally compulsive chastity (her options include chastity or castration), no more teenage or unwanted pregnancies, rape, incest, sordid affairs, men that spend time on their women, devoted marriages etc... well maybe simplistic or unrealistic, but it was a interesting topic to discuss
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I have just heard that we are invited to another "hot-tub evening", with I believe another couple, we believe are a bit more adventurous... maybe we started something here, maybe I'll charge an "appearance" fee for my "Jailbird"
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