Is erection denial a thing?

[Len51]

Got my new Jailbird and it is the same length as my flaccid penis thus preventing erections. My wife started talking about adding erection denial to my orgasm denial. We do not have intercoure so she has no need for my penis. After 16 months of chastity she is finding edging and teasing me to be too much like work. She would just like to lay back and not have to bother with my penis so we can focus only on her pleasure. I like edging though and that is one of the reasons she wants to stop that. She barely accepts ruined orgasms as part of our chastity.

I have not read anywhere that long term erection is a thing people do. Anyone doing it? My wife has settled on 3-4 orgasms a year rather than one per years. That works for me as I have gone 3 months before and after the first few weeks it is much easier. However that was with two edging sessions a week so I got a little pleasure. She is talking about eliminating that pleasure too as a real possibility. I will find out later tonight if she is going to keep me locked up during sex all the time. Is anyone being denied erections as part of their chastity?

[EDAS]

The idea of adding erection denial is interesting. But I for one would be a bit scared of what that could do to one's cock in the long run. I like orgasm denial and have spent up to three months without an orgasm -- though I have fucked my wife and masturbated over those three months. It is just that I would do these things (fuck and masturbate) but never to the point of ejaculating. I would just pull out or bail out of my wife's cunt before coming, or stop masturbating when I was close to the edge.

But erection denial is a whole other matter. Here you are really and consistently, day in and day out, going adjacent the grain of nature. Not ejaculating is also going against the grain of nature, but not as vehemently.

So I would be afraid of doing permanent damage to my equipment (my cock) if I were to lock it up so as to prevent any and all erections.

I did see once on a late night talk show a doctor who warned against that very thing (erection denial). He said in no uncertain terms: "DON'T DO IT! IT IS DANGEROUS!"

But of course, some of us like to live dangerously. So it is up to you in the end.

[EDAS]

Just for information: though I practice chastity for sometimes up to three months, I do not wear a cage.

The chastity I practice is what I call: "Chastity with benefits". That is, it is not real priest-like chastity in that, though I do refrain from ejaculating for long periods of time, I do fuck my wife and I do masturbate, as I said in the previous post. So the 'benefits' part is the fucking and the masturbating.

[grubber]

Is anyone being denied erections as part of their chastity?

Yes denial is a thing and yes I go through erection denial all the time along with permanent orgasm denial. I look at as true chastity. For me it is even more frustrating being locked in a cage that has no access to my penis so I don't get any stimulation until she decides she wants me to.

Our lifestyle keeps changing and evolving and I get total lockup randomly. I have gone anywhere from 1 day up to 6 months without an erection or unlock. But then again, I have had times where I have been unlocked daily for serious tease and denial and sometimes this will go on for weeks. But it always results in denial. Always denial. Always denial, Always denial, Always.........denial.

I have come to enjoy feeling my penis get as hard as it can in the cage and the "Rooty" behind the cage immensely. My wife is very good at keeping me on edge and sometimes allows me to just have an erection only without stimulation. Until you have experienced that, you won't understand how good that feels all by itself after being locked non-stop for months.

So I would be afraid of doing permanent damage to my equipment (my cock) if I were to lock it up so as to prevent any and all erections.

I did see once on a late night talk show a doctor who warned against that very thing (erection denial). He said in no uncertain terms: "DON'T DO IT! IT IS DANGEROUS!"

That's a bunch of crap! There is no proof whatsoever on this. My wife and I have been living this way with long term lockup for years and everything still works fine. I still get nice hard erections. In fact, they are harder than they were 10 years ago. I just had my annual physical and everything looks good. No prostate issues, blood work looks good, urine sample looked good and so on.

I don't know where this stuff comes from and I posted a video here on a TV show where the doctors said it was dangerous but never gave any evidence why. It was all just their opinions.

[EDAS]

Your experience is interesting, Lens51, and it would seem to disprove that doctor's pronouncements. Thanks for providing this counter opinion (which is also an empirically lived experience by you) to the doctor's opinion on TV.

That said, I don't think I could take the erection denial part. No problem with the orgasm denial part though.

Yet I do find very attractive the type of relationship you have with your wife. Her pleasing herself while you are in a double denial bind (denial of erection and denial of orgasm) is very tempting. As though she were exercising her power over you with a kind of an added nyah-nyah sarcastic pinch to it. That sounds great.

I have always felt that orgasms are for women only. Not for a man who, in my twisted mind, should never in his life have an orgasm. Well, maybe one or two, just to give him the memory of how great orgasms can he. Then: total denial of orgasm after that!!

[Len51]

I saw that doctor on TV too and although he made a splashy show of it, he basically said "it could" and not that it will. He really did not know but was postulating based on his knowledge of the penis. He also had an anti chastity bias and made fun of it. Never showed a chastity device and instead had a large box on his table that when lifted shot out a spring snake. Got a lot of laughs but the women in the audience were never shown what a chastity device looks like, only that they were ridiculous.

My situation is different. I am in my mid sixties with a penis that still has a little room in a 1 1/4" cage. I have not been allowed intercourse with my wife for almost 30 years while she had a girlfriend. I also have erectile dysfunction so trying to get hard is stressful for me and disappointing and tiring for her. We think avoiding erections is best for both of us. She hates the way I get after a full orgasm and so do I. She is playing at by ear and thinks 3-4 orgasms a year is a good number but whether they are full or not depends on how she thinks I am handling it.

[Len51]

It is done. No more erections allowed until she decides to give me a ruined orgasm. That is usually on a special occasions. The next occasion is in June. My testicles are sore from the cage pushing out from my body. My wife thought it would be fun for me to take a Viagra. I never bulged out on all sides of a cage before. When she touched me, I forgot I was caged because I could feel her hand in me. The new Jailbird exceeded my expectations. This was a different experience than what I was used to. I used to have a free range penis during sex but no more. I may end up liking erection denial after all.

Guys, just 16 months ago my wife said no to Chastity and now she has taken charge of our sex life and some of our personal life too. Don't give up but don't hit her with chastity and all sorts of other fetishes all at once. I made that mistake and it overwhelmed her. It was not until I isolated chastity and nothing else, did she become interested. Have hope.

[Schwink]

Erection denial, as you are calling it, is one of the main things I like about chastity. It is a completely different feeling having your erection smothered in a chastity device.

[greecemonkey]

I have no idea if it's a good or bad thing for the bits, but it can be extremely stimulating whilst frustrating at the same time. I don't know where my wife learned it, but if I start to get hard, she just hits the little fellow just below the glans and the boner vanishes.

[Julie Morgan]

Erection denial is on the top of my list with my husband. I am always on the lookout for smaller and smaller cages. Although on saying that, the last one I bought him is only around 4cm long. It takes me ages to get hin into it, forcing his willy back into his body and if he gets only a little hard it becomes impossible to get him into it. Once on it looks fantastic, and for me knowing if he does start to grow there is no room at all, and becomes quite painful. Its just the power thing for me knowing that not only do I say when he comes, and that will be ruined, I also stop him getting hard when he has disgusting dirty thoughts about sex and him getting some sexual pleasure. I have told him his useless manhood (if you can call it a manhood) is absolutely no good to me anymore, and will never be used again, FACT! get used to it. I have all the tools I need with my dildos, magic wand and most of all his tong. We have two grown up siblings, fled the nest now, and his job with his pathetic tool has been done by fathering them. I wish I had been aware of male chastity years ago, I would have had it locked away then. He is slowly coming around to the fact that I am in total control of his penis, his erections his orgasms and his milking. He said its a strange feeling that in our relationship he will never get the pleasure of a massive orgasm again, exciting...but disappointing at the same time. Oh the highs and the lows....

This beautiful device I bought for him when his feeling become a little too much. I just lock him into this and insert the wee tube and he soon calms down....



And this one is my favourite. I love to lock him in this one.