Can you ask to cum?

[Grizzly228]

I rarely ask. Actually probably never have as I usually know about when it's gonna be allowed. However in the heat the moment I tell her how much I want to or how close I am and she never gets tired of that

[locked4her55]

I have to ask. Most of the time it is allowed for the rare times I'm out.

[Jedi]

I just discussed this question with my wife this evening, as we are starting a new period of enforced chastity after a long break. The answer was a mixed bag... I am allowed, even encouraged, to ask/beg for sex/orgasms while not engaged in any intimate activity, but while we are playing I am not allowed to ask/beg for it. She stated that the answer will ALWAYS be no if asked... so I will just have to wait until she tells me to have an orgasm.

[Michele]

My hubby is also allowed, encouraged, whatever to ask, grovel, beg, etc for orgasms... the answer is usually no but he can certainly ask.

[peter_rabbit]

Lately, I don't ask. Words aren't necessary. How I react to her touch tells her everything.
Since I've promised to never masturbate in 2015, she knows I'm already ready.
I told her I want her not to feel pressured. I told her I enjoy being hard and horny.
I told her it would be a gift if she would let me never masturbate.
She accepted me, and responsibility for my libido. I never felt more proud.
For me, it's better for my brain not to ask.
But then again, I've never gone longer than three weeks.

[Len51]

I ask anyway as she has not set any limits but its her choice if im allowed.
She mostly denies me PIV sex these days in favour of her Toy aka (Mr Big).

No PIV for me for about 25-30 years and still counting so my penis is not needed for my wife's pleasure.

[Len51]

This question does not arise in my case
A few months back my KH wife has put me into permanent chastity
I satisfy her by giving oral sex
And that's it!!

After a year's trial period, this is were we are at too. I do not ask anymore or expect an orgasm. In a way it is very liberator with no disappointments of getting upset.