New Experience

[grubber]

I am curious if anybody else has been through my recent experiences and if it passes in time.

My KH wife put me permanent orgasm denial at the beginning of September and I have only been unlocked once at the end of September for a T&D session. Previous to that, I have only had a few ruined orgasms (no full ones) in the last 3 years with the last ruined just over nine months ago. So technically, I have been on permanent orgasm denial for over nine months. I just didn't know it until September.

I am and have always been quite horny, crazy horny to be truthful, but lately I seem to be at a place that I have never been before. It seems whenever I am around other women or see one walking down the street, or even on TV, my cock starts to ache something wicked. I have always been able to get aroused by women but it never took a hold of me like what's happening now.

I was at a jobsite recently with a real estate agent that I work with on a regular basis that is quite attractive and two of her clients that were very attractive. I wasn't in the room with them more than a minute when my cock started aching and throbbing like crazy as it got as hard as it could in the cage. It just kept getting worse and worse where it started twitching like crazy. I could feel wetness in my under shorts. I thought I was going to orgasm. I was sitting at the table with them so they couldn't notice any bulge but I couldn't sit still and concentrate on anything but my cock. I excused myself and went to the bathroom to let things cool down. After a few minutes i went back to the table and it started all over again before I sat down. I didn't orgasm and managed to get through the meeting but it was agony.

This has happening to me on a regular basis now in different situations including in mixed company. It does not matter whether if its a group of women, a single woman, mixed company, where I am or what the situation is. If there is a woman or women present, my cock gets totally out of control. I mean no control, none. I haven't orgasmed, but the feeling in my cock is mind blowing. I have to say that the same holds true when I am with my wife. Same goes if I see a woman on TV, or walking down the street, in a mall...it doesn't matter. Just thinking about a woman gets me going. I find myself constantly avoiding anything that could get me aroused.

I have told my wife all about it and she loves it. In fact, she is thriving on it. She keeps telling me how grateful to her I should be that I am so aroused. She knows she has me right where she wants me now where it takes next to nothing on her part to keep me there. I deal with women on almost a day to day basis and my KH wife is having a blast getting me going with them. She has been doing things like rubbing her fingernails lightly on my balls before I get dressed in the morning on days I am meeting with women and telling me how exciting my day is going to be. I start dripping like her little faucet. Calling me during the day and telling me that she wants my cock to feel even better today with the clients. She has been inviting her girlfriend s over a little more than often just to watch me squirm.

I have never felt like this before. It feels amazing. It really does. But it is also agonizing. The throbbing and aching and twitching and burning is so intense and uncontrollable that it is all consuming and extremely difficult to concentrate on anything else. My balls look like they are swollen all the time like when excited and they are so sensitive to the touch. It's at the point that most of my day (and evening) is like this. I keep telling my wife that I am going to orgasm one of these times. She just laughs and tells me I am so conditioned that I can't and wouldn't dare without her permission. She has me right where she wants me and isn't going to let up any time in the foreseable future.

[TwistedMister]

I've never gone that long without an orgasm, but I have experienced some of that to a lesser extent. Couldn't say if it passes.

[locked4her55]

I also have never gone that long without some type of orgasm being ruined or full.

I'm feeling for you though. It must be quite a distraction when you really need to get some work done.

[Tom Allen]

Interestingly, I've recently been thinking that I'm rarely attracted to other women. For me, the effect of long-term denial has been that I've become very focused on Mrs. Edge, and when I meet other women, unless they are particularly striking in some way, I'm rarely ever thinking about how much I'd like to have sex with them. Not that I don't get aroused, it's more that I can't picture myself with them.

[sherulestherooster]

I really have no desire to be locked up for that long of a period. Maybe long weekends, but that's about it. I have been locked for a week plus on several occasions (lol, it's not up to me!). Generally speaking, the women at my work are not that attractive, but the combination of being super horny and locked did make me swell up in my cage when I saw the one or two women that I actually find attractive. Kinda nice that they didn't see me tenting up.

[grubber]

It has never been this bad (good?). Sure wish someone else out there has been through what I am going through right now. It's almost indescribable. Just writing here, the ache and burn is so intense. It feels so F'in good that I don't want it to go away but I do at the same time. I keep twitching and my whole body is so on edge.

It seems ever since I heard the word permanent from my wife's lips, everything seems to be magnifying. I am hoping that this will plateau or taper off at some point. I have always been super focused on my wife and going long lengths of time with only some type of orgasm has been wonderful. My wife just seems to know how to keep me aroused all the time and keep things fun.

But lately, my mind has been wandering to some pretty kinky thoughts. I can't believe just how dirty these thoughts are getting. When I am around other women or see them or think of them, my mind wanders very quickly to things like "All these women have nice warm wet slippery pussies" and in my mind I can almost see and feel how good a warm pussy would feel on my cock. It's not about being attracted to them or even wanting them as much as just that all woman have what my cock so desperately craves and in some weird way they are all there just to tease me. It's almost like I am being punished. I think my mind is getting a little twisted.

My wife is not the jealous type and thinks it's funny that I am being so turned on by other women in general. The hornier I am, the better she likes me and she really likes me a lot lately. She put on some porn one night and I was holding my own (kind of) until the guy started to slide in and out of her. I couldn't lay still any more and my wife laughed at me. I begged her to turn it off and she finally did. She told me that I just have to learn to control myself with women. Easier said than done. I think I got about an hours sleep that night. When she told me things were permanent she told me that someday, not anytime soon, maybe, just maybe, she will let me ravish her all I want but not until she thinks I am ripe enough.

[Tame Lion]

Grubber, I am not sure I buy this. Generally speaking (and you may be the exception), lack of direct stimulation will lead to a much lower level of libido. Tom's experience is way closer to mine (and others I have chatted with). The less stimulation, the less interest in sex. I suspect it is a hormonal thing. Like Tom, my interest in other women has decreased dramatically. When I see a cute woman with a nice butt, I note it and smile. In the past, such a vision would trigger a fantasy, either at the time or later. Now, that just doesn't happen.

I have noticed that when unlocked, I am much more quickly aroused when Mrs. Lion plays with me. I love that change. But overall, the longer without stimulation, the less sexual interest I feel.

[grubber]

Tame Lion, I wish I could be like you and other guys like you. Seriously. I marvel and can't comprehend it when I see guys in porn videos having to get stroked and sucked silly before they get hard and ready to go. I am just the opposite. I have always been easily aroused without physical stimulation to my penis just at the hint of something sexual and could blow my load very quickly if there was stimulation. I have had to work at holding back to make sex last all my life. I was in and out of several relationships before meeting my wonderful wife and I think this was part of the reason.

I lost interest in sex well before we ventured into chastity when our sex life was in the tank. Since chastity, it's like I am in my twenties again. I may not get as much physical stimulation as I would like, but my wife does a great job in mental stimulation. I never know what to expect at home. If you read any of my earlier posts, you would know what I am talking about. Walking in the door and seeing her in sexy lingerie, or exposing me to our next door neighbor, or all evening edging sessions, or making me think that she is interested in women now, or binding my hands and slipping her sweet hot pussy down on my cock and just staying there like that while kissing me and telling me over and over how much she loves me and on and on. in fact her edging sessions have helped me last considerably longer. I just don't get to orgasm. You don't, well I don't anyway, lose interest in sex with this kind of treatment.

There was a time a little while back that things didn't seem stimulating and I posted here for advice. The good people here offered all kinds of good advice. It was then that my good wife must have sensed it and got things going again when our neighbor saw me in my full birthday suit in my cage as my wife had planned.

Anyway, this is something different. It's not the actual women I desire, it seems more like what they represent. The only thing that keeps making sense to me is that her permanent chastity decision is really starting to sink in. We all know that permanent isn't really permanent forever, but knowing my wife, this could be a very, very long time and it is messing with my head. I am sure, actually hoping that this is just a phase.

[Tame Lion]

I'm sorry for doubting you. Actually, I've heard of guys who have similar experiences. One, who wore a truly escape proof chastity belt (Access Denied), was able to orgasm by playing with his nipples. Without your complete agreement, you actually can be caged permanently and still have regular orgasms. How you do it is highly individual, but just being in the room with a woman you find attractive could eventually trigger an orgasm without even touching. Admittedly, this is rare, but not unknown. Most of us as we age, can't get hard without direct stimulation. I would love to get some no-touch erections in my cage. I think it would be big fun.

[rickiee_2002]

My situation is somewhat different, but in some ways the same. I find that being locked up has made me so conscious of my loss of being able to touch myself, that I think all of the time about it and that leads to excitement, with the slightest of provocation.

I think my uncontrollable erections are the result of my fantasizing that when I see a pretty woman, I would expose myself (as in "you don't have to worry about me, cause i'm locked") and then I go about pleasuring her, with my tongue, fingers ...etc. I do find myself fantasizing about other women that I see and it does frequently start an erection that, of course, cannot completely happen.

I have been locked for 14 months, give or take a week or two. I am released daily for showering, under my wifes watchful eye. I am immediately placed back in my cage. Typically I am milked twice a month ... but that doesn't always happen. I have not had a full orgasm in that entire period of time. She has ruined my orgasm quite a few times, but she considers that way too much work and doesn't want to make a mistake and give me a full orgasm. So, the milkings take care of what they are intended.

For me, the worse time being locked is at night. Nocturnal erections and morning wood are agonizing for me. Some have told me that it shouldn't be, but it is. I've learned to get through it ...typically with deep breathing.

Well that's about it ... good luck