New Experience

[doctor_h]

My maximum time without an orgasm is only 1 month but that is from a starting point of orgasming nearly every day (just as a reference I am middle aged - 50 years old). As I go without orgasm I find 1) that I think of virtually every semi attractive to attractive female as how fuckable they are 2) I get aroused easier and can swell in my cage at things that previously would have barely given me a sexual interest.

I can definitely fill my cage without any touching and without any verbal teasing. My wife can get me to fill my cage almost instantly via verbal teasing. However, so far I cannot orgasm if I am wearing the cage even though I can get very aroused. Even trying to play with the cock or nipples cannot get me there. However when I am in this state PIV can usually get me there in a minute (way too fast for the wife so I virtually always service her quite thoroughly before I get PIV)

[doctor_h]

My maximum time without an orgasm is only 1 month but that is from a starting point of orgasming nearly every day (just as a reference I am middle aged - 50 years old). As I go without orgasm I find 1) that I think of virtually every semi attractive to attractive female as how fuckable they are 2) I get aroused easier and can swell in my cage at things that previously would have barely given me a sexual interest.

I can definitely fill my cage without any touching and without any verbal teasing. My wife can get me to fill my cage almost instantly via verbal teasing. However, so far I cannot orgasm if I am wearing the cage even though I can get very aroused. Even trying to play with the cock in the cage or playing with nipples cannot get me there. However when I am in this stat,e PIV can usually get me there in a minute (way too fast for the wife so I virtually always service her quite thoroughly before I get PIV).

prior to chastity (implying an orgasm almost everyday) I could last quite a while with PIV; often I would last until I was getting physically tired. Back then though I usually had my orgasm and then we would try to get the wife her orgasm (I would play with her pussy as she played with her clit with the vibrator). Now it is very rare for me to get an orgasm if the wife did not get an orgasm (I think it has happened once since we have played with chastity for longer durations (long is relative - many people would think a month is nothing)).

[danj]

I've never gone beyond 3 weeks of denial, but have cum in my device at least once without stimulation. After a few days or maybe a week, I can get feelings of intense arousal when looking at random woman. It might be a woman on TV, or a woman I see at a store, etc. I'll feel myself stiffening in my device and feel increasingly aroused and in rare cases, feel like I could ejaculate in my cage. The time I definitely remember cumming in the cage, I had been perusing some porn and without any touching came. I believe it was after about 2 weeks of denial.

[grubber]

I think the phase is over. At least temporarily. Yes, I am still aroused around women but that intense feeling I had like I was going to cum in front of them has subsided.

I'm pretty sure that it's my new clients that did it and brought me back to reality. She is a very attractive women. I would guess to be in her forties. She was an absolute sweetheart before the sale and I looked forward to working with her. Since she signed the contract on the 20th, she has turned into a major nightmare. She even called my cell phone on Christmas although I didn't answer. I don't even want to hear her name anymore. She has to be at the top of my list for nastiest person I have ever dealt with. Have you ever heard someones name and felt yourself getting tense immediately? I had to meet with her today and arousal was the last thing on my mind and I've got at least another month to put up with her crap.

It's good in a way that things have settled down. But what a way for it to happen.
It's going to be an early cocktail hour at our house tonight.

[locked4her55]

Isn't it funny how things turn out sometimes.

At first, thinking of her was a source of arousal and frustration. Now you can use thoughts of her to help get you back in your cage.