She Now Lets Me Cum but Only with a Self-Facial

[Anymouse]

One of the enduring memes of pornographic film is what is euphamistically termed "the facial."
The facial carries a certain visual appeal to male viewers, but has an under­current of power and control.
Consider: a person's face is sometimes held to be the "window to the soul." Through one's face one speaks, sees, smells, expresses emotions. One can argue that a person's unique visage is in fact the person herself.

On the other hand, the product of the male orgasm, his seed, is very much like marking territory. When it is done through the act of lovemaking, it places the most intimate part of the man (his power to reproduce) within the woman (impregnating her).

But when sprayed across her face while he is in the throes of bliss, her very person, that though which she expresses herself, is nothing more than a target. Spraying his stickiness across her face, up her nose, in her hair, in her eyes could be viewed as making her nothing more than a backstop; in a sense dehumanising her.

As she lays there while he brings himself to orgasm, she stares at his manhood, at the little slit that will spray his most intimate gift across the most expressive and identifiable part of her person.

In all the erotic romance novels I have edited, I have never seen this scene written once; women mostly read those books. It appears over and over again in films mostly watched by men.

I suppose there are women who like this sort of thing; I have never conducted a survey about it. The subplot seems clear though: he is in charge, and she is merely a backstop. He is in command, literally spraying his seed across her personality.

Sometime last week or so the nature of our chastity relationship changed. My sweet has been doing Kegel exercises while denying me entry. She still wishes to be penetrated when I attend her, but only with two fingers that I can only insert up to the second knuckle now. I lick or finger her, or she fingers herself, sometimes several times a day.

So last week, she changed the nature of my teasing. As I am very limber, I can fold neatly in two, such that I am staring at the head of my own penis. With our new wrought-iron bed, I can also hook my heels under the crossbars of the headboard. I cannot completely pull my groin over my face though (due to the differential in the length of my torso and my legs). In such a position I cannot directly look up at it though (it is about a twenty degree angle).

She decided I should get a taste of male medicine: I should get my own facials (though I have never given her one and she does not recall anyone else doing so either).

The first time she ordered me into that position, she had pulling on myself, my body tingling with the impending explosion. It had been so long since I had an orgasm it took but a few short minutes to reach that peak.

I could see everything: that quivering slit, my testicles bouncing as I stroked to her instruction, the swelling of the prostate. It was fascinating and a bit terrifying at the same time.

I was overwhelmed by conflicting feelings: the impending orgasm exciting my entire body, coupled with the dread of what would come of it, knowing I would be sprayed by my own seed and powerless to prevent it.

She ordered me to open my mouth.

My mind was fighting against the orgasm but my body was betraying me. In an overwhelming rush, I could see my prostate pulse as the first wave struck, and suddenly a hot rush of sticky cum was propelled at my face, one after another. It went in my mouth, up my nose, in my hair and eyes. Just like the films, but I was in the first person here.

It had been weeks since I'd cum and it seemed there were bucketloads of it propelled at my face, now merely a target (like the porn films of women) for my wife to see befouled by my useless sperm.

When it was over and my humiliation with my own seed complete, she had me massage it into my skin around my face and neck.

Every day this week she has taken great pleasure in watching me foul myself this way, but yesterday was different.

She had me lay down on our chaise lounge (the one with D-rings around it) and anchored my ankles over my head to the floor via straps. My penis hung directly vertical over my face this time, my entire line of vision filled with nothing but my thighs and genitalia less than six inches away.

The she started stroking me herself: she wanted to give me that facial and watch while she did it; she wanted to use me as a mere backstop as so many men have done in films.

She went cautiously, building then slowing, working me up to shoot as large a load as possible directly downward into the window of my own soul, to cover it with my useless sticky cum.

After fifteen or so minutes I could no longer contain it, staring at that quivering slit. As everything tensed up to propel, she stopped; a ruined orgasm instead, slowly pouring my cum into my mouth and face rather than the wonderful but terrifying pulses.

She was pleased with her work.

At least for now, I am allowed to cum, but with a price: she wants to be entertained by it in the same manner so many men are by films (except she gets a live show and can participate). So much for a Vanilla Female-Led Relationship.

So every day this week I have received a facial of my own making. I do not know whether she will tire of watching this — an awful lot of men don't with film. For now she is letting me cum, but with that as a price.
It is amazing what (this) man will do to get an orgasm when it is offered. I suppose it would be only more degrading if she had someone else do it to me — tied to those D-rings and unable to avoid my fate.

[Atone]

She went cautiously, building then slowing, working me up to shoot as large a load as possible directly downward into the window of my own soul, to cover it with my useless sticky cum.

After fifteen or so minutes I could no longer contain it, staring at that quivering slit. As everything tensed up to propel, she stopped; a ruined orgasm instead, slowly pouring my cum into my mouth and face rather than the wonderful but terrifying pulses.

She was pleased with her work.

This is hot, thanks for sharing, my steelheart is trying to tear my balls off right now. We have done this a few times in the long distant past but never with a ruined orgasm. This was way before we started with chastity and I even knew of such things.

[locked4her55]

I agree with Atone. Your description earned me a semi. Would have been a full erection but I'm a little stifled right now.

You really got me thinking about all the porn I've seen over the years of guys pulling out just to dump a load on the woman's face. I never really enjoyed watching it happen and recalling all my relationships over the years I don't believe I ever found the need to degrade my partner by doing it. It's one thing to do it to yourself but not feeling the love in doing it to a woman that is taking it in the face because that's what I want.

[Michele]

Haha I threaten cagedmonkey with letting him cum but only if it's in his own face sometimes lol

Wonder if I'd ever do it?

[Locked by LRC]

Tip of the hat to your KH. I have seen some porn where the woman made the man orgasm in his face. Now your KH has added the frustration of a ruined orgasm, that's just awesome!

Give her a high-five from me.

[HornyHutch]

Wonder if I'd ever do it?

We know you would Lady M!

[TwistedMister]

Hey! Good to see you Anymouse! I gave a wave on your blog a week or two (or three?) ago, but as I recall there was a message that it had been classed as 'spam' .

That's hot, got me stiff (I'm free as a bird at the moment). I must admit to having bestowed the occasional facial or 'pearl necklace' upon Mrs. Twisted, but she has never returned the 'favor'. I've sometimes fantasized about it, with the addition of a head cradle* (or her knees clamping my head in place) and a ring gag (with and without a funnel), completely immobilized, wanting to cum but trying so hard not to, her stroking, edging, completely in control of whether it happens or not, verbally teasing, taunting, perhaps even with the additional humiliation of penetration with a large dildo (this is the perfect position for a large, heavy dildo, well-lubed, to be placed against the sphincter and allowed to enter slowly by the force of gravity as one's muscles tire of attempting to prevent it, with perhaps the occasional little extra push), pressure on the prostate forcing out a bit of semen, unpreventably...

*(For those into urophilia/urolagnia, there is (used to be?) one made with suction-cups for use in the bathtub...)

[slave d]

Hi Anymouse

Must admit your suggestion around "facials" being degrading to woman really got me thinking, i honestly hadn't thought of it that way before but it's changed my outlook on a lot of the porn i've seen. my personal take would now be that perhaps a "partners" willingness to create a self-facial themselves would be the only way this would show as being "their" decision and therefore not a derogatory act ? but "doing it" to a "partner" is definitely a power trip. Seriously, thank you for the insight, changed my headspace for the better i think.

d

[SubSec]

A proper orgasm and a ruined orgasm would be very different beast, something particularly unappealing about the latter, makes me think it would be cold and dribbly. Like refraction period cleaning up.

Getting spunk out of my hipster beard is an absolute bugger as well.

[LOCKED HUSBAND]

LOCKED HUSBAND Says i'm now hard in my cage as I have dreams of this happening to me