Learning to obey

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ownedandlocked
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Learning to obey

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I have recently been led into chastity by my Wife. She enjoys the control and power this has given her which makes me very happy. She now wants others to be involved. This does excite me but makes we wonder how far she is wanting to take me
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I find this post very difficult to believe for two reasons:

1. We could only find two cases where the wife initiated chastity.
2. This is fantasy number 31...

come on!
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I think it is great that your wife has initiated this and you have agreed however your last sentence leaves me a little troubled.
She now wants others to be involved. This does excite me but makes we wonder how far she is wanting to take me

If you are wondering "how far she is wanting to take me", this leads me to believe there has been little or no discussion between you about what limits if any there is between the two of you.
For chastity to work it requires two people to respect each other and discuss any limits that either party has.
I am curious to know if you have a contract with your partner or have at least discussed "safe" words if one party takes things beyond the comfort zone of the other.
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Tame Lion wrote:I find this post very difficult to believe for two reasons:

1. We could only find two cases where the wife initiated chastity.
2. This is fantasy number 31...

come on!

Yep, have to say my BS meter is twitching a LOT !!

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like slave D states... I call BS!!!!!!
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Seems like the ones you don't follow the rules about where their first post should be are the BSers that are quick to come and go too :P
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Wow, tough room! :lol:
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Tom Allen wrote:Wow, tough room! :lol:
I was thinking that lol

What if this guy isn't a good writer and hasn't explained himself well? Maybe she's referring to cuckolding? Maybe she wants to force bi and they have talked about it... Maybe we should ask before we assume too much? :)

Ok done doing my mom thing :)
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Re: Learning to obey

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Dear ownedandlocked,
Hope you are not disheartened by the criticism
I appreciate for expressing your true feelings & excitement
Though your post is criticised, don't get disheartened
All the members here are to support you, guide you and also help solve your queries
Just enjoy being locked & have fun whichever way you feel
All the best
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Lady M wrote: What if this guy isn't a good writer and hasn't explained himself well? Maybe she's referring to cuckolding? Maybe she wants to force bi and they have talked about it... Maybe we should ask before we assume too much?
Okay, let me just add this:

This was the first post by this person, who somehow managed to bypass all of the READ THIS FIRST caveats, and put this short bit right here. So, right away it's suspect.

OP, we're going to give you another chance. First, please read the PLEASE READ stuff, especially this section.

Maybe in your next post you could be a little more descriptive about what's going on?
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