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Wife worried about hygiene

Posted: Sat Jun 07, 2014 11:51 pm
by Lockedchef
One of my wife's greatest concern's so far is me staying clean. If you haven't guessed by my name I am a full time chef and spend long long days in the kitchen. For example today I was at work from 10am till midnight and running all day. This is pretty common for us and a short day is 9-10 hours. There is really no such thing as a break or taking more then 5 minutes to yourself.

I am perfectly comfortable wearing my cb6000s all day at work. I am already to the point that unless I bump against something I forget it is there. However kitchens are very hot and dirty places and I sweat more then my share. I have mentioned this in previous posts that many times when I get home she is asleep and I don't run into her awake for a day or two at a time. It is the nature of the beast and we are okay with it. Of course at the end of the day I just want a good shower and after two or three days the device just needs to come off for a good scrubbing.

She has said she will just leave me a key and I should take care of myself. My problem with this is that it ruins half the fun for me and defeats the purpose of me wearing to begin with. If she tells me no cumming while I shower there is a 95% chance I won't but after a few days some accidental misfires might happen. Not sure what the solution is in the short term. I am hoping to one day to upgrade to a MM Queen's Keep or Jail Bird but I don't think she is ready for that. Overall I'm still happy she is playing at all and I count myself as lucky

Re: Wife worried about hygiene

Posted: Sun Jun 08, 2014 12:51 am
by Cagedrosie
Lockedchef, I hear ya and true that. I'm a diesel mechanic and spend long days outdoors and in the field. As a 24/7 caged sis, I will agree that hygiene is extremely important for anyone in chastity but more so for us plastic users. I clean once a day real well when I get home durring a shower. I find that using a qtip and your regular body wash works great for me. After my shower. I apply a small drop of a&d on a qtip and apply it inside the cage. I got it down to a minute for cleaning and 30 sec for applying. The mistress does let me out for a off cage cleaning handcuffed about 1 every 2 weeks and been doing it this way with honestly zero problems or issues. Everyone is different but this method works for us. Hope that helps you.

Re: Wife worried about hygiene

Posted: Sun Jun 08, 2014 6:40 am
by Michele
When hubby is in his Revenge the handle shower head we have is very helpful. He soaps up real good and uses the powerful sprayer to get in the device. Also a squirt bottle with a tapered end works well to get right into the cage itself. Then make sure you're staying dry and hubby will do the hair dryer on the cool setting. Oh and yeah, cotton swabs (qtips) become very helpful!

Your best option, though, would obviously be to invest in a custom device like the jail Bird. Those can be worn weeks or months at a time (without removal). Because hubby will be denied for about 7 months this time around, I've decided to d do some extended lock ups with him and I'm going to find him a soft toothbrush or similar to get in all the nooks and crannies during it.

Good luck!

Re: Wife worried about hygiene

Posted: Sun Jun 08, 2014 6:58 am
by fineline
When in the Holy Trainer I use a large tip foam swab soaped up with Dial to reach into the cage through the front opening and the back to clean inside the cage. I can go everywhere that I need to. I have installed a diverter on the shower head that allows me to divert the water to a hose/hand held shower head. I use the narrow, direct spray to blast water down the cage. I can feel it flowing through the cage and all around my cock. You can buy the large head foam swabs on eBay, 50 for under $15 including shipping. They last a long time, and don't break down when you use them with silicone lube.

Re: Wife worried about hygiene

Posted: Sun Jun 08, 2014 7:28 am
by TwistedMister
With the CB3k I use a liquid soap or body wash- squirt a liberal amount in around the base ring and top of the cage, particularly in the folds of the scrotum. I give it a bit of time to run in then squish and swirl with a finger. Then I wash my hair and everything else. When everything else is done, I rinse using a hand-held. A high pressure setting gets all traces of soap out.

This works just fine [for me] as long as it is done on a daily basis...otherwise it *will* start getting funky.

Re: Wife worried about hygiene

Posted: Sun Jun 08, 2014 3:21 pm
by Lockedchef
Thanks for the tips and advice. These are some of the not so kinky and everyday things you never think about when you first get locked up.

Yeah it isn't so much me worried about staying clean it is more her preception that it is safe to stay locked and I will be clean for a few days. I can get plenty of soap and water in there so I am good. Just a little odd telling her go ahead and smell I am just fine. Just one of those things about chastity we are trying to work out.

Re: Wife worried about hygiene

Posted: Sun Jun 08, 2014 7:43 pm
by wishful4
I have been using a foam swab for years that works very well and is reusuable. Link to them at: http://shop.swab-its.com/71-4501-5-larg ... Quantity=1.
A regular Qtip just won't cut it for cleaning. Hygiene was an issue for my KH/spouse, as well. Especially in the CB6K.